Oral Sex

Yes, it is safe to swallow for both yourself and your girlfriend. As for the fluid she puts out, its totally normal, its her lubrication, every girl does it. (if their lucky )

About her performing oral sex on you, it shouldn't hurt. It does sound like she is using to much teeth like you had mentioned. You did say it was her first time, so you let it slide? I'm glad you thought about that. My first time i was so scared, i was afraid of rejection, so its a good thing you let it go. I would say give her another shot and see how things go. If it still proceeds, just maybe say something like "babe, that was great, next time could you try using a little less teeth?" Make sure she understand that she doesn't suck at it! Make sure you don't put her down, it could make her never want to do it again if she feels like she isn't doing anything right down there. She'll be afraid of rejection and she doesn't like the feeling of not being about to please you.

...just look at her from her point of view too. (which seems like your doing a great job at anyways! )

I agree. I would gently mention to her that she is using too much teeth but in a way where she still feels secure in her actions. You sound to be doing a great job of supporting her so far!

As long as you have no STDs, swallowing cum/precum, as well as a woman's fluid/lubrication is perfectly safe. It will not cause any problems, and there is no possible way of pregnancy or anything like that to occur from this.

first of all penguin and keeba ...thank you so much both for taking time off and replying. i would like to tell you that no matter if she does it wrong or uses even too much teeth a 100 times , i wont leave her just for that .shes too nice and supportive of me and i respect that.

secondly we dont feel like having sex right now due to risks and other things. is there any alternative to a dildo ?? i mean is it alrite if i take a cucumber and put a condom over it and insert it in her vagina. or is there any other sugguestions are greatly helpful

Vegetables like a cucumber are safe as long as you are sure to put it in a condom so the dirt/juices/etc do not cause an infection. Dildos feel better and are safer, though (you can order them online and get them in a plain brown package if you are worried about parents knowing or getting to a sex store). Also, things like electric toothbrushes (but not the bristle end!) can feel good on a girl's clit, kind of like a vibrator.

i would love to go myself to a store that if i could find one. i live in india , and although we are growing at such a fast rate, you know they would definetly not open a sex toy store here as indians are still to shy to do such a thing.there are a few places but they are just to far. now i would love to order by credit card.but im sorry i dont have one. ill be getting one next year..but i cant wait haha.anyways i guess ill have to use the cucumber ... any other ideas where we can make our oral sex more interesting ? thanks

You could always use food? lol whip cream that kinda stuff. I used butterscotch once. That i don't recommend lol its to sticky and a BIG mess. Chocolate although it can get messy isn't as sticky.

As for dildos or vibrators... since you don't have a credit card or sex stores, yet, you could buy a back massager... i have this bee back massager and it works like a charm, not as good as my real vibrator but pretty damn close. It has four, i want to say legs, that come off of the body that vibrates. Use it on the outside or throw a condom on it and put it inside...whatever she pleases! They are cheap, like $10 max. They are just hand-held little things.

Think the back massager is an option?

how safe is this -->
first i start off my performing oral sex on her... then she put on her pants on (just for the safety part of it ) and perform oral sex on me. after we r both done we plan on having bath together? is that safe. i mean the remaining cum which mite come on the either of our hands .. although we will wash it off, is it safe to finger her in the shower too