i come from an emotionally detached family, we dont open up about our deep feelings and the things most people would want to talk bout, but my current bf has been helping me with that, an i can feel things again, which is good...i knw i can tell him anything, its jus the matter that sometimes i have to sit on it for awhile b4 i approach him w/ it...an the other day i did have something that i needed to open up to him bout, it was about my past and the sexual abuse i had to deal w/ for 17 years..he already knew that i was abused in this way, but ive never been able to talk about it b4, an then the other day i jus felt like i needed to get it off my chest, so when he got online after work i msged him on aim...(sometimes its easier for me to type my feelings then to talk them out in person or on the phone, especially if its something really deep)...an i had told him that i need him to jus listen while i get this all out, so i started opening up an we were talking, an it was feeling really good to get this stuff out finally...so i continued on with it all, then when i was done telling him everything he had IMed me saying "f*** you" an then he signed off...and at this point im feeling alone an rejected and yet im raging mad too, so i waste no time in calling him, and his sister answered the phone and told me he was at the bowling alley that i should call his cell, i called his sell and sure enough he was at the bowling alley an had been there for bout a 1/2 hr....and i was so mad i snapped at him, but as it turns out his crazy ex was on under his sn...an she was the one i was talking to the whole time...she was pretending to be him, and he had no idea wat was going on, i hung up the phone an went to work and came home later that nite an he called me, and he want me to open up again an tell him everything that i had actually told he ex....i couldnt do, i literally jus shut down..so we jus agree to do it another nite....this was 8 days ago, and even when i approach him to retalk bout it, i still end up shutting down......i have no idea y and no idea how to get over it....any advice???