Do you still have some feelings for the first girl? When you are with other girls, are you nervous or thinking about the previous experiences with the first one?

It's human nature to compare, and to try to re-create some event from the past.

I don't think there's anything physically wrong with you. It just seems like you may need to sort out your feelings, and to become more comfortable with the girls you are seeing.

Sometimes even tho the physical attraction is there, the emotional comfort may not be. That would explain your issues...

Does any of this ring any bells?

Cheers
Daniel

I believe I do still have feelings for the first girl. I dated her for quite a long time and I was in love with her. We stopped seeing each other within the last few weeks, so it was been fairly recent. Because of this, I feel like I am nervous when I am with other girls.

This sounds right up my alley and it does seem that I need to sort out my feelings and put the first girl behind me.

One of the girls I am currently seeing I like a lot. We frequently send each other dirty text messages and I sometimes tend to get hard from them. It is kinda like phone sex, but instead through text messages.

I will take your advice and see if I can sort through my feelings and become more comfortable with with the girls I am seeing before jumping into the sack with them.

Thank you for your advice, it is greatly appreciated. I will post back here if I run into any more complications.

Thank you once again.