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Nick112211

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One of those kids that hasn't had a real relationship
Posted: 05-04-08 15:40pm

Hi I'm 18, and I have yet to have a real girlfriend. It's not the fact that I haven't know girls, it's the fact that I use to be addicted to just haning out with friends, and playing video games, mostly the video game part. That has changed recently when I met this girl at work, I swear she's changed what I thought about what kind of person I've wanted to be. I asked her out a month ago and she said yes, but we have yet to go out...my mom (who works with us) stupidly told her she would tell me employees coulnd't date...and she said she wanted to. But she always sends out these vibes, with the ways he looks at me, we make fun of each other a lot, and I just generally feel this connection. I even sent her this message on AIM about a week ago, telling her how I felt, and she said "your a turd" and "hehe", I couldn't respond because i was afk, but it seemed like a weird response (keep in my mind she's 19). Well this thursday we didn't talk about it at all and went on as our usual selves. The thing is because I think she doesn't like me, even though she said YES to going out and gave me a REAL number, I kind of gave up. I swear I try to be next to her, then I try to show I have no interest, but it doesn't work, I can't forget her...she just runs through my head. She's one of those girls that is always funny, and she's just someone I'd like to get to know, but she's never given me the chance. I feel like there could be something, but the weird part is we'll do all that stuff during work, then at the end of the day it's like nothing happened. One time when we were done with work she was on ehr phone, and I said bye to her and she was one foot away from me and didn't say a thing, and she even looked at me...kind of made me feel down. I even know her mom and dad because we work together, and they are just like her...cool. I don't know what to do anymore, because I feel so akward around her, we can talk sometimes, then others we just sit there. Keep in mind she's beautiful, and I'm meh, I've lost about 20 pounds in the last month so I look A LOT better, but still it seems like maybe I'm just not in her league.

I guess the hardest part of this is figuring out why she would say yes to going out with me and now it's a month later and nothing has yet to happen. I just wish I could figure it out, any help?
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Posted: 05-04-08 21:17pm

So did you make plans to go out after you asked her out? You asked her out, so I think you should have made the plans as to when, where, and what you do.

The two of you need to do something outside of work.
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Posted: 05-05-08 12:18pm

yeah I agree did you make plans after she said yes? Cause if you said ok cool then left it at that she could be thinking that you might not want to go out that much. Maybe she is confused too. I think you should just ask her straight up.

Maybe theres a new movie coming out or a restruarant close to work. Ask her one day after work if she would like to have dinner and a movie? I know its hard to just ask like that, but if she has already said yes then she has interest in you. She is probably just waiting and wanting you to make the next move.

At least thats from a womens point of view.
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Nick112211

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Posted: 05-05-08 17:18pm

Well yeah I had called her a couple of times and she said she "didn't get a message", but yeah that doesn't matter now. I didn't work this sunday and apparently she told my mom to make sure I knew we were just friends, because she had a BF. At first I was like.......UMMMM WHAT? I mean she did say yes to going on a date, but maybe she had met him right after I asked her out. But yeah I guess it's fine, I've changed from my old self really, and a lot more heads have been turning my way Smile! But yeah, it does feel weird to go through all of this to be shot down, I'm fine with it, she's a cool person and I see nothing wrong with being friends. I think the reason I feel down atm is because really she's the first person to say yes to me (was always too shy to ask ppl out), and trust me on this, she is amazingly beautiful, in every aspect. I'll get over it, but I guess I need to aim wayyy lower to really get any bits...haha.

Thanks for the comments!

I will make it through!
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