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Q: Nothing seems to go right..I cant even get a girlfriend..

asked by: Justinx91 on January 14th, 2009

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Everything in my life sucks. My grades are bad, im fat, my parents got divorced, I switched schools so I don't have any friends, I had to move into a really small house, my mom doesn't even like me, she says im the worst child shes ever had, and I am horrible with girls. Its hard to meet people at a new school when your a ghost.
What is left in life for me?

Why do girls only go after the good looking guys? I mean im not horrible looking but I am slightly overweight. What is so wrong with me? Why are girls so shallow? I don't care about all that personality garbage. Girls ARE shallow. Even if I do manage to talk to them, its just for a second. After that, they think you are trying to get close to them and think you are a freak. I just don't understand, its not fair. Life isn't fair. I mean im not a bad guy I hold the door open for everybody when we leave class, I let everyone leave the bus before me(I let everyone off first), I play football on the highschool team, I play guitar, and I have a pretty good sense of humor. Ive been trying to lose weight ive lost 30 lbs since september, but nobody notices exept for my mom and my best friend. I don't get it. I have this crush this girl. I always see her looking at the "good looking" guys. Whats wrong with me? What is so wrong with me??? One of the main reasons I wanted to lose weight is because I wanted her to notice me. I understand you can't always get the girl you want, but I just want to be noticed. Can anyone please give me some advice? I'll post pictures of myself if you want..

I am a 17 year old male in high school.

Replies(4)

QueenB88

replied on January 14th, 2009

New User

don't be sad

Hey Justinx91,
Your story caught my eyes because it sounds like a normal day of high school. I am now 20, but when I was in high school, all the girls ever cared about was the superficial things because they were too stupid, immature and did not realize how important personality really is. Trust me once you become older and you graduate from high school you will see that there are very nice women out there that just want to be loved for who they are and not for there looks. I myself do not have many friends because I realized you can't trust anybody but your fam and the people that really try hard to be in your life. Anyways, I hope my post has helped in some way.
Goodluck!

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Aquamarine_Angel

replied on January 14th, 2009

Experienced User

see your mum does care about u she noticed u lost weight, isn't she proud.

maggie420

replied on January 26th, 2009

Experienced User

Keep your head up Justin!

Your still so young and your right...your at an age were girls can be very judgemental and not see the better part in you.

My boyfriend was in the same problem as you. He moved to my town about 7 years ago...and moved into my neighborhood. Little did I know...he had a massive crush on me too. I only seen him as a friend, because he was a dork and I wasnt into the same things as him and because he was a perv and because he was younger then me...lol trust me I had a lot of reasons to NOT have interest in him. But almost a year ago he came to me and confessed his true feelings for me. At first I was like NO WAY! but then I thought about it and considered it. He promised me the world pretty much and I decided to give him the chance. And he does treat me wonderful. I have NEVER felt so loved in my life...including my family. And even tho he has messed up TREMENDOUSLY (sp) more then once!, I still love him so much and have faith in him...most of the time.

So you still have a chance...just give it time or tell her your feelings. She may not even know you like her. BUT like I said...still keep in mind that girls are cruel while they are still so young...so theres no telling how she will react.

I know life may seem rough right now and you feel like you just dont wanna go on. I am constantly running into brick walls and I know exactly how hard it is to pick yourself back up. But you just have to stay strong or else its never going to get better. I hope everything lets up soon...GOOD LUCK!!!

proudmama

replied on January 26th, 2009

Supporter

Queenbb8 is right. In high school girls are dumb in a common sense, reality sorta way. I went through it. I was a little over weight myself in high school. And all the guys I liked, only liked my friends. And I know how you feel its like your heart has been stomped on. No matter what I did, I was on the dance squad, hung out with the pretty preps, I dressed nice there wasnt anything different about me except I was thicker...bootylicious as I call myself lol. As I realized that things arent going to change I gave up. I knew that one day I will find a guy(s) that will like me for me and it didnt matter if I had a big butt and was a little thicker. So in high school I went about my business, and just ignored the fact that oh that jock isnt gonna want me, or oh Im not gonna get asked out by him. I know its tough and I just want to say good for you for losing the weight! That is a huge step in your life. And you know what you just have to have the confidence to say, Hey there is nothing wrong with me, its THEM. If they cant see what a fantastic guy I am they who needs em. Once high school is over and you move on, You will find someone who likes you for you....I did:)
If you need anyone to talk to just message me:)

Keep your head up and dont forget to say...Its not me its them!

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