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Q: not pregnant yet

asked by: Meklia on August 8th, 2008

Experienced User

its been three months now, august is our 4th month trying. I was due to get my period on the 5th..but they've become irregular so its hard to say when it's going to start if at all. I don't let my mind trick me anymore if my periods late.

Its just kinda disappointing..i know it can take up to a year, but why is it some people just seem to pop up pregnant without even trying Sad

I dont know maybe its my fault..I started smoking again after a horrible fight with my husband..maybe the cigs are doing somethign or maybe its just not my time to have a child.

ah you'll have to forgive me..I'm in a bit of a mood swing...just wanted to post somewhere where people may understand since i dont have anyone i can talk to.

Replies(6)

vcaone

replied on August 8th, 2008

Experienced User

I know what you mean. I've also been struggling to fall pregnant for almost a year now, at first to normalise my hormones and then to fall pregnant - /- seven months now. Hopefully we both get our positives soon.

WinterDreams

replied on August 8th, 2008

Experienced User

Hey dont beat yourself up about it too much, try relaxing enjoy it dont make it a chore. this is the time when you and your husband should beclose, caring for each other help and support one an other. A baby will come to you and your husband in good time. Good luck x

vcaone

replied on August 11th, 2008

Experienced User

Two week wait!!

Don't you just find it intolarable? I just can't stand the waiting. I'm 7dpo today (I think) and I'm burning to take a test (I've got a very sensitive one, 10 ml/iu) but I just know it wil be a waste of time and money. If I did fall pregnant this month it will be ironic in two ways. 1. I've been on Clomid constatnly now for about 4/5 months and this was my first month off of it. 2. My son, who was only alive for six days, would have turned one thie Friday, 15/08/08. I truly hope I am, but on the other hand I wouldn't want it to be clouded by sad memories.

lynette1979

replied on August 17th, 2008

New User

not pregnant yet

i am also trying for a baby but after a year of trying still nothing, its so annoying isnt it . imy period is late and i am always thinking i am pregnant this time i know it , but then i come on a period , i feel so useless its horrible , i know exactly how you r feeling . good luck

Tripleb22x2

replied on May 11th, 2009

New User

Same deal...

Some day I will be pregnant...I am getting frustrated!!! It has been almost a year and no luck. Always feellike...when is it my turn?!? I am still going to try, but it is starting to feel like all is for not! Should I make another appt with my doctor or just wait til my yearly in October? Anyways thanks for listening!!!

blueskys737

replied on May 21st, 2009

New User

still waiting

Tripleb22x2 you should make an appointment with your doctor, October is a long time away. I waited 2 years and my doctor sent me to a fertility doctor. It took two surgeries but am now supposed to be fine for having kids. I'm on my 5th round of letrozole and so far nothing, I go back in July to see what we should try next. It's frustrating and feels like it's never going to happen.

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