Hi im 30 years now, my penis did not getting erect well, this is my first sex, i had sex with my partner last week but she didn't satisfied.But when i watched porn movies i can mastrubate well.what could be the problem? is there any chances that i would go back to normal?
This is a common reaction in any new relation when sexual intercourse is attempted early on. This issue could be due to performance anxiety and lack of confidence.
The best way, to solve this issue would be a few sessions of cuddling up, naked with no actual intercourse, and exploring each others body and finding what excites each other.
The best sexual experience is when the couple is confident with their own body and sexuality as well as confident and are having a healthy sexual attraction towards their partner. When such a confidence builds in, then you will find that your issues will be solved.
In case you are able to have a proper erection with masturbation and by oral stimulation (oral sex) there should be no major medical conditions causing erectile dysfunction.
In case, you feel that she is not satisfied, then both of you can give each other honest and unbiased feedback and take positive steps, so that things start working again.
You might consult your doctor or a sexologist, who can prescribe you medications like cialis and viagra, which when used for a couple of times will help you gain your confidence.
hi! im 32 years of age, i have problem with my penis, it can erect hard, but when the liguid coming out, my penis become soft, and i feel that something has stopping the liquid to out. i hope you answer my problem. thank you
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