me and my hubby have been married like 5 years and before him i had been with 2 guys he was #3 both guys before him i was their 1st so neither of us knew anything about anything my hubby ha been around a bit and had been married before and so he opened alot of great new things but anyways i am having a hard time now i cant go like i use to its not as great anymore im just 21 it should still be fun right its just been 5 years i mean we use to have sex 5 or 6 times a day now its like 1 or 2 times every 2 weeks we talk about bringing in another girl we found one but im to shy and dont know how to break it i mean she is not interested in him and he isnt interested in her and we are not jelous of each other we all know it would just be for fun thats it but i cant make the move anyways what your thoughts on that and also what else could we do