he says it used to build up and be ridiculous, he could tell 15 or so seconds before and hold it off if he wanted to. but now, he can only tell 3 or 4 seconds before and the orgasm is ultimately 'eh' status. what does this mean? and how can it be fixed? we've tried waiting a few days to see if we were doing it too much, but that didn't seem to help. and he's really horny, dripping, and begging beforehand, so it's not like he's not aroused enough. we just need help...