hi there i was wondering if anyone could help me to stop getting nocturnal erections. i dont want them i get them all through out the night. also as im falling in and out of sleep. i know it could be a build up of blood flow once ive been asleep for many hours but even when im awake and sit up to get rid of them it goes even harder.i can go to bed and litterally within 5 minutes i can get erected.i know people say its normal but i really dont want them and it is seriously affecting my relationship with my partner.we are on the verge of splitting up over it.we never have a good nights sleep as we are up every hour or so with me trying to get rid of it.i go to the toilet for a wee to see if that helps and it does nothing.its ruining my life and both mine and my patners health as we never get any sleep.we have four children and in the morning we can be grumpy because of constantly waking up in the night trying to get rid of my erections.i dont feel as though i am having sexual dreams as i dont remember any of them although i did ejaculate on my partner 1 night but dont remember anything what i was dreaming about.ive tried everything i can think of to stop these but nothing seems to work can anybody give me some advice to help these stop?