no swollen lymph or any rashes in my case...

Hi doctor!can i get HIV from fingering with out gloves.i didnt have sex but i fingered her, after 36 days the first day of the sixth week i had a tonsillitis that last for 2dayz can i be infected i am very afraid. and i read that sysmptoms shows upto 4 weeks after infection but some said 6 but in my case it was 5 weeks after fingering. & the tonsilitis was just for two dayz, i touched it it was not painfull but theres a little pain when i swallow food, theres no swollen lymph or any rashes in my case, i am a bit worried and if it was Hiv how many days will the symptoms lasts while paining &is it 4 or 6 weeks after infection & what about if a have a small cut 1week before the fingering can i contact it,thank you once more i appericiate and i respect your answers thats why i asked and rely on it, thank you once more plz help answer so that i can be relieved. thank you .

Sorry doctor i knew i have asked you these question before i am depressed so iam now asking for the last time.