When i have sex or get fingered i cant feel anything. When i was little i was molested by my brother and i dont know if that has something to do with why i cant feel anything or not. i have tried a bunch of different positions with a bunch of diffeerent people to see if it was because their penis wasn't big enough or something. im too embarassed to go to the doctor about it but i dont know what to do. i am currently in a relationship. i feel very comfortable around him and he has a big penis. i feel like i ruin our sex because i cant enjoy it with him. also i talked to someone and they said i couldnt feel anything because i might be gay but girl on girl action doesn't turn me on at all and im 100% sure im not gay. what do you think i should do?