Hello,
Unprotected sex, pregnancy symptoms , missed period, spotting these all could very well mean one thing : pregnancy.
But ,since you tested [blood and HPT's] then maybe as you said you do not have the amount of
hCG in your body to trigger the pregnancy !
Best thing to do is not to stress , wait a few weeks and test again . There are cases in which women feel pregnant but all the tests negative until 1-3 months.