okay, so i've never been able to have an orgasm vaginally and i've also never been able to find my g-spot. i've read so many articles that say its on the top wall, not very far inside the vagina, and it's the spongy feeling stuff..i know, i know. but i've never squirted or anything during sex, i enjoy sex, but i never come. i can have an orgasm from my clitoris easily but not during sex! someone please help me out! thanks.
Coop, Not all women can have an orgasm from stimulation inside the vagina. The G-Spot is also not present in all women. It is commonly believed that the majority of woman will never experience a vaginal orgasm. This is certainly confirmed by research that indicates that only about 20% of women will orgasm from vaginal stimulation.
The vagina only has nerve endings in the outer most third, where the pelvic floor muscles are. Some women have sensitive spots in other parts of their vagina as well, but never the whole vagina. The vagina also âtentsâ at the top when you get aroused, so his penis will probably not even fill this area. The tenting happens because your uterus with the cervix attached moves up in your body creating this hollow space for the semen to collect. You can get plenty of lube, turn down the lights, turn up the sexy music and have him rub every part of your vagina and around the base of your cervix with his fingers and feel if you have any sensitive spots. He should use different types of strokes on every inch of the vagina while he is busy so it will take a while for this discovery trip. If something feels good, explore that spot further. Your clitoris is also much more than what you see. Itâs got two legs and two bulbs that goes about 3 inches (75mm) into your body on either side of your vagina just under your labia. It is thought that for some woman, stimulating this area from inside the vaginal opening can bring incredible pleasure.
Your anatomy and sexual technique is such that your clitoris does not get the needed stimulation during sexual intercourse. This is normally because the clitoris is further than 1 inch (25 mm) away (CV distance) from the vaginal opening. You need to make sure you get your clitoris stimulated during intercourse. The easiest way to do this is to rub it with fingers or use a small vibrator or vibrating penis ring.
The easiest way to do this is to use a position where you and your partner have easy access to your clitoris while he is inside you. The two well known positions for this are doggy (or any of the other âfrom behindâ variants) and woman sitting on top (cowgirl variants). Either he or you can rub your clitoris in this position. It is probably easier for you to do it until you can train him.
When you are on top, you can also control the motion. You can lean in to grind or sweep your clitoris on his pubic bone in the down or up motion. It is just an allover position for you to control your own pleasure as you are in control of depth, speed, angle and everything else.
Donât worry about what he will think. Most men find this incredibly hot and it takes the pressure and frustration from him to get you off. It allows him to enjoy your body and the visual stimulation this brings to him.
If you have not done so yet, also masturbate in front of him so that he can see what type of touch gets you off. This might feel weird at first but I can almost guarantee you that he will love it and think it is the hottest thing you did for him.
So stop hunting for the magic spot inside your vagina that you may not even have. Use the one you have and know and whose sole purpose is to give you incredible orgasms, reliably and every time.
PS. There is one sexual position that are made for stimulating the clitoris with him inside you but it is an advanced position, not suitable for the young, casual or quickie partners. It is called the Coital Alignment Technique (or C.A.T.). It does not have the normal in/out action but a rocking and grinding action of your pelvises together. It brings incredible orgasms and you have the chance to orgasm simultaneously.