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So me and my boyfriend been toogether since about last year, and i can't seem to ever have an orgasm while dick penetration, i have to touch mmmy self just to have one. But girls have orgasms naturally withoout touching their selves,



So does any one have any advice that might fix this problem?????
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replied March 21st, 2009
have him rub your clit WHILE having sex
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replied March 21st, 2009
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Really that is just the way things are. I have never had a vaginal orgasm not that my boyfriend has not tried! Smile

Anyways, your in the same boat as me and all I can find to get off is doing it ourselves or having your boyfriend lend a finger or two. Smile

Best of luck! You are not alone!
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replied March 22nd, 2009
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No orgasm during penetration
One way we have found effective to have orgasm during penetration is to get gut tp suck your nipples and play with your clitoris, for up to 20 mins, or untill you feel you are gatting close to your climax, then if he keeps up with firm nipple sucking , but doesnt touch your ctitoris anymore, you should feel yourself getting close r and closer, and your hipps are going up and down involuntarilly. . If he penetrates you then and goes for it, you should be going for it as well, and in 5 mins or less, bothof you should have your orgasm during intercourse. works for us, but all womaen are different, but it may be worth a try for you to experiment in this way. there are usually strong nerve connections between your nipples and your clitoris, ans prolonged sucking of nipples can realy bring you close to orgasm.
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replied March 22nd, 2009
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Re: No orgasm during penetration
whitbyhill wrote:
One way we have found effective to have orgasm during penetration is to get gut tp suck your nipples and play with your clitoris, for up to 20 mins, or untill you feel you are gatting close to your climax, then if he keeps up with firm nipple sucking , but doesnt touch your ctitoris anymore, you should feel yourself getting close r and closer, and your hipps are going up and down involuntarilly. . If he penetrates you then and goes for it, you should be going for it as well, and in 5 mins or less, bothof you should have your orgasm during intercourse. works for us, but all womaen are different, but it may be worth a try for you to experiment in this way. there are usually strong nerve connections between your nipples and your clitoris, ans prolonged sucking of nipples can realy bring you close to orgasm.


That is a such a great idea! I just wish my nipples were not to sensitive and I would try that...even breathing on them is painful! (I have a VERY large chest and my nipples I think are just weird lol)
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replied March 22nd, 2009
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my nipples too, are very sensitive , so hubby puts ky jelly on clitoris and touches that only for first 2or 3 mins. then very gently sucks nipple.
I cant stand them being touched at first, but after he has stroked clitoris for few mins , i can stand gentle suck on nipple, left hand one, right nipple still too sensitive.
he is still stroking/rubbing clitoris, he leaves nipple alone for while , then goes back to it . my clitoris statrts to dip by itself, and he is able to suck nipple a little more firmly, then I stats moving hips, like you would in intercourse, and all the feelings start to build up, he increases clit speed and still sucks nipple , or rolls tounge around it, and i get very aroused and can feel the inevitable happening.
I get very red in face, breathless, and then clench my vaginal muscles 6 or 7 times as I orgasm.
he has stopped sucking nipple just before, cos I cant take that anymore. and I press his hand tight against my clitoris as I climax.
after a few jerks I am done . I suffer a couple of aftershocks as he moves his fingers away, cos my clitoris is so sensitive after my orgasm. then we are finished.
then he needs his satisfaction, but that is another story
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replied March 22nd, 2009
G-spot
Find your G-spot, that's what causes the vaginal orgasms. It's toward the front of your body.
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replied March 22nd, 2009
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Its so wonderful to kno that I am not alone.. I'm TC I'm 18 and I have been sexually active for 2 years.. My first partner was inexperienced as I and so sex was not what I expected.. At first I thought it was just him not being experienced.. However with my second partner who is a bit older than I and very much experienced I still feel no pleasure from penetration.. Today I I asked him if he thinks that we will ever make love or enjoy sex together or if ill ever orgasm through sex and he said with time bla bla bla but it just doesn't feel that way he have tried soo many positions some I sorta feel his dick but no real pleasure.. He is puzzled cause he is saying he feels me.. But that doesn't change the fact that I can't feel him.. Some close to most times I wonder if he is cheating. May be cause I can't satisfy him cause of my "disability".. Sometimes I just feel like a doll that he just screws for pleasure.. Don't get me wrong I love this man and he loves me but I am tired n broken about constantly watching him in his own world fulfilling himself off me and I just have to watch him or the wall and cry he usually asks me if I'm ok or if I'm feeling pain I usually say no but I'm really not but I don't kno how to explain how I feel.. Its not low self esteem or anything I'm totally comfortable with myself but its breaking me apart in so many ways .. I'm tired of wondering and feeling used tired of him cumming and me rolling over and bawling to myself.. Most times after sex my belly hurts and I feel so sick.. Someone help me.. I feel like givin up now..!!!!
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replied March 22nd, 2009
thanks, i will give it a try
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replied March 23rd, 2009
G-spot
Here's a book for you:

"The Smart Girl's Guide to the G-Spot" by Violet Blue

There are many other books on sexual pleasure - How to's that I found interesting -

"Expanded Orgasm: Soar to Ecstasy at Your Lover's Every Touch" by Patricia Taylor

"The Low Down on Going Down: How to Give Her Mind-Blowing Oral Sex" by Marcy Michaels and Marie Desalle
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replied October 17th, 2009
You should get in a position where he can hit your "g" spot. You on the bottom and him on the top in a sideways position you legs in between his. It is kind of hard to write it down.You also know when you are hot and ready when you clitoris gets hard, yes we can get a hard on like men. This means that the blood is flowing through it. You will defintely have the BIG O, trust me it is a wonderful experience (on cloud 9)especially when you are in love which you should be when having sex. To each is own though.
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