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No Feeling During Intercourse

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So, I have had sex a few times, and I must say that I enjoy the fact that everyone enjoys it. Unfortunately, when my boyfriend and I (even with my ex) have sex, I cannot feel anything. I can feel pain when he enters and then there is just a feeling of nothing-ness. I get no enjoyment from it, though people have told me it is supposed to be wonderful. It has led me to become rather bitter about the subject completely and I'm tired of being this way.

I've only tried masturbation a couple of times, and even then it did nothing. I'm not sure what to do.
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replied January 3rd, 2009
Extremely eHealthy
hi sorry to hear about this problem, i think you should visit your doctor about this as it does seem a bit strange that you feel nothing hope you sort it out Jenny
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replied May 29th, 2009
no feelingduring intercorse
I have sex with my husband, I cannot feel anything. I can feel pain when he enters and then there is just a feeling of nothing-ness. I get no enjoyment from it, though people have told me it is supposed to be wonderful. It has led me to become rather bitter about the subject completely and I'm tired of being this way.
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replied May 29th, 2009
My partner has a similar condition, just wondering have you ever had a orgasm?
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replied February 16th, 2010
Not having an orgasm, never had sensation during sex.
obviously the answer is
have a check by the doctor,
have hormone blood test to see if you need hormone increase.
Have gynaecologist check your vagina and clitoris.
Consult a sex therapist.
Reduce stress and coffee and drugs, get fit.
There is no simple answer and the internet has not helped us here, my girlfriend is at stage one, getting blood tests, to her knowledge she has never had an orgasm in her life and feels nothing. I am above average sized in penis and sometime have sex for several minutes. Always she feels nothing, does not even produce myconium, she says she is broken. This affects all aspects of her cosmetic, from the way she dresses to her feelings for me. I am doing what I can to be supportive. Cheers.
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replied April 30th, 2012
no feeling during sex
Im just into a new relationship and my girlfriend told me
That she feels nothing. Im glad she told me, so I don't feel like I can't please her. So I'm looking for answers to try and help her. Hopefully we can figure this concern out. I was reading elsewhere it may be as simple as nerve endings on the vaginal walls. Also as states earlier hormone deficiency.
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replied May 2nd, 2012
I have a similar situation, I don't derive pleasure from sex and I never liked masturbation either. Recently I realized that I am really attracted to women, which explains all the problems I was having.
Not to say it's the same for you, but it could be a possibility.
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