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Q: No erection with specific girl

asked by: the_man on February 12th, 2009

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i cant have an erection when im with this specific girl and it is really bothering me!

i met this really really hot girl and she wants to have sex with me more than i want..but i cant have an erection when im with her! i had a girlfriend,and i didnt love her that much, but i stayed with her for a long time..i had erection everyday when i saw her and now still whenever i see her, i have an erection, but whenever i am with this hot girl and i want to have an erection, i jst cant have it !!!

i dont have problems when i masturbate alone, but the problem is that when im with this girl only and when i need to have erection

i really need some help about this !

Replies(5)

venison

replied on February 16th, 2009

New User

It sounds like it's probably emotional. Believe me, I've been in the same situation, and it's frustrating when you actually come down to the moment with someone attractive, but you realize that you're really not into it. So don't worry, it's not that you're getting old and having your virility compromised, it's probably complex emotional factors coming into play.

Sexual attraction is emotional as much as physical, and no one quite completely knows what goes on their subconscious. Maybe you're feeling reserved or just don't feel that intimate with her.

the_man

replied on February 16th, 2009

New User

"no one quite completely knows what goes on their subconscious". i think this is it.

in the past couple of times, once i had total erection and my penis was like solid like a rock, and another time again no erection..so this situation is really a not-known situation!!

moneypussy

replied on July 7th, 2009

New User

I am having the same problem with a girl who I really like, we have a 10 year history together as friends who flirt and recently have become intimate but I have to work hard to get an erection. I had a girlfriend with no issues we broke up about 10 months ago and I was heart broken.

Now I have had sex with this girl a large number of times, almost everytime its an issue to get me into it...I really dnt understand the problem and I would like some help with it as well, but your not alone brother.

fico

replied on August 10th, 2009

New User

me toooooooooo maaaaaaaan heeeeeeeelp i get a hard ass erection wen alone nd no erection wen am with her

W0LF

replied on August 10th, 2009

Extremely eHealthy

Well it's not erectile disfunction. If you are able to become erect for the ex but not for the hottie then it's all in your head not in your pants. It's not uncommon that men have performance issues with women if they haven't resolved problems with their last partner. break-ups can be hard on your confidence, they can cause guilt or other sexual poisons. Respect your erection, if it isn't coming up for this girl you're just not ready to go there. Work out what's botherring you and everything will fall into place naturally.

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