Hi , my name, stev ,am married i had son last week, i move to canada last julyi live in north of canada . my problem is one day in october i was having sex with my wife then i feel pain in my penis after 2 days i got sick my back was harting me and faver then puking blood , then i went to hospital i found out that i was having chlamydia and after 1 day i told my wife to chek couse she was pregnanet and she has it too we were treating chlamyddia and after that when iwas trying to have sex , i figure out that my penis cant wake up i was trying to wake him up but no result i try watching porn movie and same, and i had appointement with doctore not spicail couse teh camunity where i live there is nospicails doctore , i try vaigra and cialis no result .so please can tell what to do couse am going crazy about that .
thank u for u time.
It is probably psychological. You're more than likely subconsciously associating sex with pain and very likely with guilt for perhaps having given it to your wife (or anger for having gotten it from her?)
I can only imagine the chlamydia infections have created tension between you and your wife. Add to the fact that you have a new baby in the house and I can understand why you are having difficulty obtaining an erection.
I would try direct and honest discussion between your wife and yourself. Perhaps this will remove the fear, guilt, anger, confusion you are (and your wife) may be feeling.
If the problem persists I would pursue counseling for you and your wife.
Good luck, you're in a tough spot but I'm sure through time and discussion you and your wife can move on happily.