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No Ejaculation after 3 hours of sex

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i'm very concern about this since it has never happened before. I being dating my BF for more or less 4 months and we finally decided to have sex. We lasted 3 hours making love but he did not ejaculate at all. It got me a little upset and dissapointed since I think I didnt do my job. According to him he says that everytime he gets physical for the first time with a girl he doesnt ejaculate due to a metal blockage and because he wants the women to think he's the man. The sad part about this is that since then I havent have sex with him because I dont want to feel dissapointed again.. Any advice, is there something wrong with him? Is this normal?
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replied May 20th, 2008
As guys we have a lot of social pressure when it comes to sexual encounters or relationships.

Questions like,
how long should I last?
how big is my penis?
Is she going to come?
Am I a good sexual partner?

Have the potential to either makes us ejaculate quickly or not ejaculate at all, I am pretty sure that most men experience both scenarios. There is nothing wrong with him, and this has nothing to do with you! So don't worry too much about it, if you want to pursue the relationship try to make him relax , try to boost his confidence, and the situation should improve with time and practice.
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replied May 27th, 2008
Answer to ejaculation issue
I agree. Let him relax more and to focus more on his arousal as opposed to his sexual stamina. If he does this, his ejaculation response should be quicker.
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