I have problem that my husband has erection while he is asleeep. i think that he is dreaming about another woman or even having sex in his sleep. when i ask my husband about this, he says that it's not true, you can be dream about anything. we had looked it up and it says "a man can be dreaming about anything and can get an erection". i feel like when he has erection during the night, why dont he want to have sex. and his answer was he is asleep. he stated that i should get on top of him when he is erect or wake him up to have sex. my question is, is it true that when a man is dreaming and he has erection, can he can be dreaming about anything or is the dream of a sexual nature?
Your concerns are important in terms of your outlook towards your relationship with your husband.
There are various stages of sleep. One such stage is called the REM (Rapid Eye Movement) stage. During this stage, the brain works overtime while the rest of the body is relaxed. But it is during this stage that a man get's an erection. And during the entire night sleep, one may get REM stages every hour or so. And during each REM stage, erection is observed.
A person may or may not be dreaming in the REM stage. And when they are dreaming, it may or may not be of a sexual nature. But regardless of what dream it is, there will be an erection.
I think you should discuss this with your husband and perhaps both of you could together find some more information on this topic from a doctor or from the internet, but from authentic source. This will help you clear any suspicions that have crept in to your relationship.
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