Oh, how I envy you with all your wonderful years ahead of passion and love....I will let the younger women here talk with you as honey, I am older....But, I can remember it well....I, too, was not sexually active before I was married...

My best advice to you would be forget the stress of that darn marriage bed....Take yourself in your mind, back to the parked car or wherever it was that you got hot....Open up to him.....Make yourself hot by thinking hot....Don't be afraid of using any sexual or dirty words...Believe me they can help....Remember that absolutely nothing is wrong in marriage....Sometimes the hotter and dirtier, the better it feels.....Before he comes home, take your panties off to help stimulate yourself...This can get you hot from the start....Just hot sexual things...Go braless and have sex in crazy places...Have him bend you over the sofa....Just have fun....

Now my dear, I will disappear and leave it up to the young women....You see, I have been married 50 years, 2 months and 23 days....And it is still hot....

My wish for you is, may you find in life all that we have captured....I send you all my love,

Caroline

That is very very good advice- make yourself hot by thinking hot. Thank you for the time that you took in replying to this message, I have a good feeling that it will prove to be extremely helpful. The research that I have done and the advice that I have been given has always led to a major theme 'relax'- the more you do the better and better it will feel. Congratulations on being in love and married for 50 years, 2 months, and 24 days now. It really warms my heart to know that love continues grow stronger over time.
Thank you again so much.
-Andy

hello, i myself wated till marriage, with my husband, and we go married June 28, 2008! The best advice i can give is have fun with it, be romantic and let him rub you and things like that! One thing that i noticed helps is a "makeout" session first and then going to the bed room or wherever you feel is comfortable! I wish you all the blessings in the world, and hope you have a wonderful and faithful marriage!

Jen

Oh jeeze I love you hahaha that gave me some good advice too! And I hope that my husband and I are still having hott passionate sex in 50 years!!! We have been married 2 years and things are still great! Thanks alot!

I had that same problem too. I think at first tho it was my insecurites holding me back from the pleasure. Im with a man that makes me sooooooo comfortable naked and so beautiful. For awhile our sex was great (a little painful..given the size of his penis) but lately i have sunk back into the same scenario from when we first got together. All I can say is that during sex...being on top is WONDERFUL! your in charge and you find ur spot and you need to let him know where it is so next time you can lay back and let him find it. Sex is a lot of fun...and in my case I a huge work out. I feel it days after lol..Good luck, enjoy and have fun

When i first became sexually active, it took almost 6 months before i had an orgasm. I think a lot has to do with finding out what gets the best responce out of yourself physically. Also your body may just not used to sex yet, even if your mind is. Don't worry; You both have plenty of time to explore yourselves.

Oh jeeze I love you hahaha that gave me some good advice too! And I hope that my husband and I are still having hott passionate sex in 50 years!!! We have been married 2 years and things are still great! Thanks alot![/quote]
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And I thank you for your kind words...You do know that you have only just begun... ..I both envy you and wish you well.....

XOX
Caroline