There are many different things you could try. I guess it would be easier if I knew what you'd already tried but here are some suggestions: get some costumes and role play, have him pretend to be a stranger and pick you up in a bar, buy a copy of the Kama Sutra and have a hilarious time trying some of the positions, purchase a sex game... If both of you are open to new things there's no limit!

Hi Hisonlylove4life, and welcome to ehealth:

I think one of the hottest and very erotic things to do is being tied up....The first time I suggested this to my husband he thought I flipped out....However, after we did it then it was a different story...

I brought some silk scarves at the store...We didn't use ropes or chains as some people do...This isn't kinky or S&M, it is just, sock it to me baby sex.....I think he tied my feet to my arms (one side at a time) and then my hands together so that I couldn't grab anything hanging... or readily available...I think this is the way it was done but it sure was fun.....Being naked and with both legs tied and up to your chest, it left nothing to the imagination...I think with this type of hot sex a woman is in a constant state of orgasm.....When both sides of me were tied he then began to tease me....You can imagine all the places that were teased....Slowly and sexually...Ever had a penis dragged over your face and tried to catch it only with your mouth?.....it was hot..The only problem is if I tried it now I would probably break every bone in my body...But what the heck...We all have to die.....I guess it is the fact that you have surrendered and are his for the taking....It can be quite a hot trip....The pleasure of this sexual act when two people play this special fantasy is awesome...But IMO it must be played with the love and lust that it is meant for....nothing more....Just hot sex........

At any time during this tryst I could have gotten free....But I didn't want to....Being sexually taken in that position was so erotic and I remember it well......It is times like this and the memory of three years ago when we did this that truly can make your heart sing........

Much luck and have good life....I sure am...

Caroline

Massage is really great. Full body massage...but I suggest that you take turns. You massage him one night, and then he massages you on another night.

Roleplay or costumes, I would say let him pick someone he finds hot from a game or vice-versa and act it out or just stay home.

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