I'd suggest that you try to orgasm by yourself first. Masturbation and self-knowledge is the key. If using your hands doesn't work, you might try gently rubbing your clitoris on a surface or with water in the bath. Also, check out your vagina and sexual organs with a mirror so that you understand the mechanics and placement of everything. You need to know what turns you on and gets you to orgasm before you can direct him.

im the same, its been 5 monhs and i feel like im gettting close but then nothing happens. Id try a vibrator but if u have only been having sex for a few months concentrate on using it on the outside so ur not uncomfortable! keep trying, i am!