hey both of you. i had a similar question about orgasms. i got advice from someone n they told me a couple different things.
yes a vibrator can help u get one during sex i tried it. if ur bf is on top hold the vibrator on ur clit.
or if riding him have him do tht or have him rub ur clit while ur doin some work..
i hope this helps
good luck n i had similar issues with my bf thinkin im not satisfied and i just had to talk to him. i talked to him about my issues with not bein able to orgasm
truthfully tell him it really isnt tht easy for a girl to get an orgasm. its alot easier for guys
its just not fair is it lol
i hope this helps