I have never masturbated before. Help?
I am in my twenties and have never masturbated before to the point of ejaculation. In fact, penis-related activity, when taken far, is often painful. My girlfriend wants me to practice masturbating so that I can enjoy sexual activity a bit more and give her tips on how to pleasure me. I've experimented with lubricant, but haven't had any luck. I am a virgin, and hope that perhaps doing the "real thing" will fizzle out all these issues. I get wet dreams about once every three months.
So I realize I'm an unusual case. Do you have any advice for me?