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Have you ever masturbated?
Yes - regularly
Yes - a couple of times ever
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Q: Never masturbated
asked by: tadghbetal on April 15th, 2009
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I am a 33 year old man who has never mastubated in my life. Are there more of you out there who have not? I feel a little strange wbout the whole thing and it seems like a taboo subject but it is true. I am a normal hetrosexual man in every other sense.
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concernedn
replied on April 16th, 2009
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Incredible achievement
If you are really telling the truth (I assume you are), I have to admit it is almost a miraculous achievement. I did not know of anyone who has never masturbated in his life. Recently, I have been trying to completely stop masturbation but I know it is not going to be an easy task. I mentioned in my post " Never to Masturbate Again" masturbation is a sinful act and wrong (althugh no one agreed with me). Anyways, I don't know what are your thoughts on that.
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tadghbetal
replied on April 16th, 2009
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Never masturbated
Thanks for your reply. I am 100% truthful in this. I have never masturbated. What some people might find contradictory here is that I am also a very sexual bloke. I think about and like to see women all the time. Sometimes I think I am too much. My partner would agree. As for your opinion about masturbation being a sinful act I too would have to disagree I'm afraid. It is completely natural in my eyes which is one of the reasons I have posed my question. If it is so natural then I have to think that maybe I am unnatural to not masturbate and therefore I would like to think there are more people out there who have not masturbated.
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Jodie17
replied on April 22nd, 2009
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hi
if ytou are really telling the tuff anywaty doesnt make a diffrence lol but that would seem good to you as god sees masturbation as unclean anyway and doesnt think men should do it read the bible lol
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aceparking
replied on April 25th, 2009
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never masturbated
Hey, I am a 25 year old male and I also have never masturbated. Just doesn't work for me. I asked my doctor about it once and he said not to worry because masturbation is just a means for your body to relieve itself, which can also be done through wet dreams (something I do occasionally).

Also, based on some of the previous replies, I think many people have difficulty believing us because there seems to be a common misconception out there that 100% of men masturbate.
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concernedn
replied on April 27th, 2009
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At Least 99%
aceparking, while it is true that not 100% of men masturbate, one also cannot deny the fact that at least 99% of men have masturbated at some point of time in their life. So, is it not hard to believe when you see 99 out of every 100 have masturbated and then suddenly there is one fellow who comes and claims to have never masturbated?
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Koolaid585
replied on May 5th, 2009
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Hi
Congradulations on that achievedment but was wondering if you don't masterbate do you have intercourse or oral sex because the only way I see it is you having other ways of releasing yourself or have an erectal dysfunction. But me I'm on my fourth week with out releasing myself (no masturbating or any sex).you are my motivation to keep going even though my balls is about to exploid, so thank you.
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concernedn
replied on May 6th, 2009
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No Harm For Not Masturbating At All
Koolaid585, even though you probably asked your question to aceparking or tadghbetal, I would still like to make an effort. If you don't masturbate at all and no sexual intercourse as well you are NOT going to get any erectal dysfunction. I say that because when semen/sperm production has reached an extreme level, it will be automatically ejaculated through something called a WET DREAM. So not masturbating at all does not really cause erectal dysfunction, it is rather created because of other problems that you may be having. Also, your "balls" are not going to "explode" if you don't masturbate or have sex. As I said earlier, when sperm/semen production has reached an extreme level it will be released through wet dream. Finally, I haven't also masturbated for 15 days now and I feel quite the same thing but I know that is never going to happen and it is only psychological.
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tadghbetal
replied on May 19th, 2009
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Not a big deal!!
Its nice to see that I appear not tobe the only one on this planet who has never pulled his wire. For those of you who are scepticla stop and think for a second as to why I would be bullshiting. Its not like its boastful to admit this. Thank Christ this is an anonymous forum otherwise I would not say a word. I have a healthy sex life for many years now I think back to when I was younger I suppose I did have wet dreams to relieve myself. The pity is that unlike wanking I I had no control over these. I am a highly sexed bloke. I love to look at women. I just would really like to get a more in depht viewpoint on this.
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Mikolas
replied on May 22nd, 2009
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There is nothing wrong about this sir, I doubt somebody would look down at you for this. It seems incredulous, but only because most men can't accomplish such a feat past 1 year even. I was considered a late starter, when I was 16, compared to most of my fellow men.

Kudos to you, you aren't missing out on much in all honesty.
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sexualpicasso
replied on July 13th, 2009
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I've Never Masturbated and Can't Stay Erect because I'm Ticklish
I'm 22 years old, in college, and I have never ever masturbated in my entire life. I'm a heterosexual man with no dysfunctions and I LOVE women and the idea of sex but as I was growing up masturbating was just something I didn't get into. Never had an interest in it. The thought of it never really felt natural to me and by the time I was old enough to know that almost ever man in the world does it, it just didn't appeal to me. Now that I look back I'm proud to be this old and not have to depend on something such as masturbation and to accomplish such an achievement but at the same time, now I have questions. Since I never masturbated, me and my dick seemed like strangers until I graduated highschool. Never really touched it for no reason or paid much intention to it except when I had to or when it was required. It wasn't until after highschool that I became very sexually active and realized that intercourse for me is an issue now and I'm not sure if its because I've never masturbated or not. I love women, all women and can almost get fully erect just by the sensual touch of them but I have a "funny bone" or spot right on my entire pelvic area that makes me extremely tickolous when women start to touch it. Makes it hard for me to not move and not resist. Week after week I try intercourse but when you're tickolous right there and you're getting all squirmish and laughing the whole time during sex its kind of hard to stay fully erect and penetrate a woman's vagina. All the events leading up to it go GREAT and the foreplay is amazing but soon as the womans hands gets close things start to go downhill. I tried to take the upperhand in the intercourse so her hands would have to get close to see if maybe that would change the outcome but I still found minor trouble penetrating because even when I'm fully erect my penis does not rise or stand straight or shoot up in the air. It just fills up with blood and semen like a normal penis should when erect and hangs there heavy as ever. The only way for me to release now is by going to the bathroom to pee every 5 minutes after getting erect or through wet dreams when I'm asleep which wouldn't be so bad if I wasn't a grown man already with beautiful women on speed dial. The only time I ejaculate is in my sleep. No this is not a joke, yes I am 0 serious, and yes I do want some truthful input on the matter. Thank God for internet where you can find answers for anything or at least people with similar problems. Any comments, testomonies, or helpful advice?
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W0LF
replied on July 13th, 2009
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Well it doesn't sound like you have much of a problem if you don't feel the need to masturbate and you aren't suffering any adverse effects. It's certainly odd and you'll want to be cautious but it's not a life-threatening decision as long as you lead a healthy life.

If you're not masturbating on a regular basis you'll want to be hyper aware of your emotional state. If you find that you are reacting strongly without good justification at any point in your life you may want to re-valuate your frequency of masturbation. Self-touch for men is specifically a way to balance their emotional state. You can also ground yourself with medication but I strongly discourage using medication to duplicate the effects of a normal body process.
Even though you're young I'd recommend you begin annual prostate exams. If you're not ejaculating daily it puts you at an elevated risk of prostate cancer and urinal dysfunction.
There could also be other risks I'm not aware of. Definitely discuss this with your doctor just as you would doing anything that 99% of men don't do. If you confide that you never masturbate and your doctor doesn't bring up the risk of prostate cancer you definitely want to get a second opinion.
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Kimberly150488
replied on August 28th, 2009
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to not masturbate is similar to not turning over in your sleep. when you're in your early years, a child, even toddlers, thats when you leanr the most. almost every toddler would have explored this area, you may not even remember though. alot of people, due to their religious beliefs choose not to masturbate. but it is a healthy thing to do throughout your life. so don't be feeling guilty if you do and if you don't, you're not unnormal!
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