Never masturbated (Page 1)

If you are really telling the truth (I assume you are), I have to admit it is almost a miraculous achievement. I did not know of anyone who has never masturbated in his life. Recently, I have been trying to completely stop masturbation but I know it is not going to be an easy task. I mentioned in my post " Never to Masturbate Again" masturbation is a sinful act and wrong (althugh no one agreed with me). Anyways, I don't know what are your thoughts on that.

Thanks for your reply. I am 100% truthful in this. I have never masturbated. What some people might find contradictory here is that I am also a very sexual bloke. I think about and like to see women all the time. Sometimes I think I am too much. My partner would agree. As for your opinion about masturbation being a sinful act I too would have to disagree I'm afraid. It is completely natural in my eyes which is one of the reasons I have posed my question. If it is so natural then I have to think that maybe I am unnatural to not masturbate and therefore I would like to think there are more people out there who have not masturbated.

I have never masturbated either. Any ideas on how to break the ice.

I have never masturbated either and it messes up both my sleeping and waking periods. I am wired differently when it comes to masturbation. I only like females. I think I really am cursed. I am glad I am not the only one. I also have to urinate frequently b/c of it and it also leads to a lot of sleepless nights.

if ytou are really telling the tuff anywaty doesnt make a diffrence lol but that would seem good to you as god sees masturbation as unclean anyway and doesnt think men should do it read the bible lol

I am a celibate female who enjoys self pleasure. I've yet to see a clear scripture in the bible about masturbation. If you ever find one let me know.

Masturbation can be taken as a sin from many bible verses, but it is never outright decalred as a sin. However, lust is a sin. So you'd basically have to masturbate without thinking about anything sexual which seems impossible.

Hey, I am a 25 year old male and I also have never masturbated. Just doesn't work for me. I asked my doctor about it once and he said not to worry because masturbation is just a means for your body to relieve itself, which can also be done through wet dreams (something I do occasionally).

Also, based on some of the previous replies, I think many people have difficulty believing us because there seems to be a common misconception out there that 100% of men masturbate.

aceparking, while it is true that not 100% of men masturbate, one also cannot deny the fact that at least 99% of men have masturbated at some point of time in their life. So, is it not hard to believe when you see 99 out of every 100 have masturbated and then suddenly there is one fellow who comes and claims to have never masturbated?

Congradulations on that achievedment but was wondering if you don't masterbate do you have intercourse or oral sex because the only way I see it is you having other ways of releasing yourself or have an erectal dysfunction. But me I'm on my fourth week with out releasing myself (no masturbating or any sex).you are my motivation to keep going even though my balls is about to exploid, so thank you.

Koolaid585, even though you probably asked your question to aceparking or tadghbetal, I would still like to make an effort. If you don't masturbate at all and no sexual intercourse as well you are NOT going to get any erectal dysfunction. I say that because when semen/sperm production has reached an extreme level, it will be automatically ejaculated through something called a WET DREAM. So not masturbating at all does not really cause erectal dysfunction, it is rather created because of other problems that you may be having. Also, your "balls" are not going to "explode" if you don't masturbate or have sex. As I said earlier, when sperm/semen production has reached an extreme level it will be released through wet dream. Finally, I haven't also masturbated for 15 days now and I feel quite the same thing but I know that is never going to happen and it is only psychological.

Its nice to see that I appear not tobe the only one on this planet who has never pulled his wire. For those of you who are scepticla stop and think for a second as to why I would be bullshiting. Its not like its boastful to admit this. Thank Christ this is an anonymous forum otherwise I would not say a word. I have a healthy sex life for many years now I think back to when I was younger I suppose I did have wet dreams to relieve myself. The pity is that unlike wanking I I had no control over these. I am a highly sexed bloke. I love to look at women. I just would really like to get a more in depht viewpoint on this.

I have never masturbated either and it messes up both my sleeping and waking periods. I am wired differently when it comes to masturbation. I only like females. I think I really am cursed. I am glad I am not the only one. I also have to urinate frequently b/c of it and it also leads to a lot of sleepless nights.

There is nothing wrong about this sir, I doubt somebody would look down at you for this. It seems incredulous, but only because most men can't accomplish such a feat past 1 year even. I was considered a late starter, when I was 16, compared to most of my fellow men.

Kudos to you, you aren't missing out on much in all honesty.

I'm 22 years old, in college, and I have never ever masturbated in my entire life. I'm a heterosexual man with no dysfunctions and I LOVE women and the idea of sex but as I was growing up masturbating was just something I didn't get into. Never had an interest in it. The thought of it never really felt natural to me and by the time I was old enough to know that almost ever man in the world does it, it just didn't appeal to me. Now that I look back I'm proud to be this old and not have to depend on something such as masturbation and to accomplish such an achievement but at the same time, now I have questions. Since I never masturbated, me and my dick seemed like strangers until I graduated highschool. Never really touched it for no reason or paid much intention to it except when I had to or when it was required. It wasn't until after highschool that I became very sexually active and realized that intercourse for me is an issue now and I'm not sure if its because I've never masturbated or not. I love women, all women and can almost get fully erect just by the sensual touch of them but I have a "funny bone" or spot right on my entire pelvic area that makes me extremely tickolous when women start to touch it. Makes it hard for me to not move and not resist. Week after week I try intercourse but when you're tickolous right there and you're getting all squirmish and laughing the whole time during sex its kind of hard to stay fully erect and penetrate a woman's vagina. All the events leading up to it go GREAT and the foreplay is amazing but soon as the womans hands gets close things start to go downhill. I tried to take the upperhand in the intercourse so her hands would have to get close to see if maybe that would change the outcome but I still found minor trouble penetrating because even when I'm fully erect my penis does not rise or stand straight or shoot up in the air. It just fills up with blood and semen like a normal penis should when erect and hangs there heavy as ever. The only way for me to release now is by going to the bathroom to pee every 5 minutes after getting erect or through wet dreams when I'm asleep which wouldn't be so bad if I wasn't a grown man already with beautiful women on speed dial. The only time I ejaculate is in my sleep. No this is not a joke, yes I am %100 serious, and yes I do want some truthful input on the matter. Thank God for internet where you can find answers for anything or at least people with similar problems. Any comments, testomonies, or helpful advice?

I haven't masturbated before either. So I know the feeling. Even when you have to go to the bathroom every 5 minutes. It messes one up. Totally understandable. The only suggestion I have would be to go to Las Vegas and get with a prostitute. No harm, no foul. I don't know of any other way to break the ice. I hope to go to Las Vegas someday and connect with a prostitute myself. At this point masturbation won't just happen for me but by having sex at least I will be able to have some release.

I am also a male by the way.

Well it doesn't sound like you have much of a problem if you don't feel the need to masturbate and you aren't suffering any adverse effects. It's certainly odd and you'll want to be cautious but it's not a life-threatening decision as long as you lead a healthy life.

If you're not masturbating on a regular basis you'll want to be hyper aware of your emotional state. If you find that you are reacting strongly without good justification at any point in your life you may want to re-valuate your frequency of masturbation. Self-touch for men is specifically a way to balance their emotional state. You can also ground yourself with medication but I strongly discourage using medication to duplicate the effects of a normal body process.
Even though you're young I'd recommend you begin annual prostate exams. If you're not ejaculating daily it puts you at an elevated risk of prostate cancer and urinal dysfunction.
There could also be other risks I'm not aware of. Definitely discuss this with your doctor just as you would doing anything that 99% of men don't do. If you confide that you never masturbate and your doctor doesn't bring up the risk of prostate cancer you definitely want to get a second opinion.

to not masturbate is similar to not turning over in your sleep. when you're in your early years, a child, even toddlers, thats when you leanr the most. almost every toddler would have explored this area, you may not even remember though. alot of people, due to their religious beliefs choose not to masturbate. but it is a healthy thing to do throughout your life. so don't be feeling guilty if you do and if you don't, you're not unnormal!

I m a 20 year old straight male. I am not sure if many people will agree with me but I think that masturbation is a really bad habbit specially if u r addicted to it. I remember i the first day i wanked. Got the idea n technique from a friendly source. Then i started watching internet porn alot and instantly became addicted to it. I remember that sometimes i masturbated for like 5 or 6 times a day. I do smoke and i think that masturbation if way way harder to quit then the cigarettes. Maybe its not the thing thats effecting my life maybe its something else but i ve been thinking bout quitting masturbation pretty seriously now. pray for me people. regards!

And did you realize that masturbating too often decrease thepleasure of masturbation ? You know, that after time of abstaing the pleasure is better.

Eating ham sandwiches is a bad habit if you're addicted to them. Unfortunately if you're one of the magnificently tiny minority of men on the planet that are capable of becoming addicted to masturbation it is unlikely you'll be able to engage in the healthy activity of masturbation without facing addiction. Consult an addiction specialist for ways you can approach your body's need for masturbation in a healthy manner.

well, were you like some sort of sex god? (as in were you always having sex instead to get out that need... haha) bc if so, then i find it perfectly normal... otherwise, props, bc thats gotta take SOMETHING... and if you do start, it only really becomes sinful with lust. but if i were u, i wouldnt start if i didnt have to because it is something that CAN become bad for you, but can also be good for you

well if you havn't ever masturbated i hope you do get erections,and if so,do you have a g/f,to have sex as often as you can,i myself masturbate daily,and so does my partner,she likes to wank me off and then i'll do her,its great,as it does no harm atall,infact the opposite,i'am not knocking you,but don't you think you might be missing out

I arrived to this forum looking for this question, out of curiosity, because I haven''t masturbated myself either and it''s funny because if you ever mention it nobody will believe you.

I have perfectly normal heretosexual sexuality, no weird religious complex (as a matter of fact I''m an atheist), but I''ve actually tried a couple times to masturbate and it just doesn''t work, I don''t find it sexually exciting.

So yeah, we exist!

Benefits of Frequent masturbation:

*It enables the playing out of pleasurable sexual fantasies.
*It releases sexual tension and often produces a pleasant, tranquil feeling.
*It helps a person become more comfortable with their own sexuality.
*It is an enjoyable experience when shared with a partner.
*It can curb impulses to have inappropriate sex with someone.
*No one gets pregnant by masturbating.
*It helps maintain good pelvic blood flow and strong pc muscles.
*It is safe. One cannot be infected with STDs during solitary masturbation.
*It's great for stress relief.
*It can help you sleep.
*It can temporarily relieve menstrual cramps in women.
*A person who masturbates can learn about the sexual responses of their own body, and thus be better prepared for sexual activity with a partner at a later time.

AND....

Graham Giles and team, of the Cancer Council Victoria, in Melbourne, Australia completed a study of 2,338 Australian men, of whom 1,079 had been diagnosed with prostate cancer. The remainder were free of the disease. He said: "What we found was men who ejaculated most (more than five times a week) in their 20s, 30s and 40s had about a third less prostate cancer risk than men in the lowest category of ejaculation...Semen is a very potent and strong brew of lots of chemicals which, because of their biological reactivity, could be carcinogenic if left to lie around." The precise reason why masturbation appears to give partial immunity to prostate cancer is unknown. Giles speculates that: "It's a prostatic stagnation hypothesis...The more you flush the ducts out, the less there is to hang around and damage the cells that line them." Other researchers suggests it frequent masturbation allows cells in the organ to become more cancer-resistant. The findings were published in the British Journal Of Urology International.