i have never had an orgasm on bottom. in order for me to achieve this i must be on top, preferably w/him sucking on my nipples(that really gets me there)& that's strictly it for me gettin mine. sorry for being so graphic but what's wrong with me??? i would love to know what it feels like to orgasm on bottom....
It's different for different women. Consider yourself lucky that you can have a vaginal orgasm at all. There are a lot of women that can't. For me, there are only two positions that get me there- and neither of them is missionary.
I love being on Bottom! Nothing gets me more than him having control of me, considering it's a change from our normal day-to-day. Sometimes what does the trick for me is sticking my legs in the air, having him hold them, or to tease him when he's trying to stick it in by scooting up just a little, because then he likes to get a hold of me and really get it in there. I think some fiestiness can really up the heat in bed and it may help you get more excited about being on bottom. But if not, don't feel bad, I can't really get off being on top!
hey I cant get off on top either, it just feels better when he does it. I can have lots of fun there but without a toy just cant. I think my thing is I love him being in control and the fiestiness Helper_girl is talking about.
i agree every women is different. in my early 20's i only had orgasm if i masturbated. i had a girlfriend who told me she can only orgasm if she sit under a tub with her legs open, and warm water pouring on her xxx. that works for her and not me. some people tells me that can achieve on by a removable shower head.
the first orgasm i had by sex was a mistake. my ex had a fat stomach and i rode him and my clit rubbed against his fat belly. and that was the only way in that relationship i had orgasms. i didnt complain b/c that was the only time during sex i would get on.
i watched real sex 21 on cable and some women said the only way she is guranteed an orgasm is if she rides her boyfriend. and understood what she meant.
never had orgasm from missionary, but i climaxed that way.
why do women blame themselves when they cant orgasm? i wouldnt blame myself, i would blame the guy!
I can only orgasm when I''m on bottom, I''ve never gotten it on top! How do you do it? When I''m on bottom, it helps me to bend my knees and then kind of pump them when I''m getting close. You just want to make sure he''s hitting your g-spot. If you don''t know what that is, find it yourself by sticking your finger inside and pushing up (not into the vagina, but up)and feeling that rough (some call it spongy) area. That''s the g-spot and it''s sooo important to stimulate that if you want to climax. I''ve only ever come on bottom, and if your guy hits it just right, you''ll come really quick, and multiple times (I come usually 3 times before he does). Plus, when you come it makes him last longer!