Are you on any anti-histamines? Studies show women and even men that cannot cum have lower than normal histamine levels, people that cum too fast hhave been shown to have high histamine levels.

Increasing intake of folic acid can help histamine production(ie. breads, citrus fruit, multi-vitamins, or even L-histadine)

im not no- but thak you, i can't realy say that i eat many things that have folic acid in so i shall have to increase my intake and see if that helps. thanks again

I would not be surprised if this is caused by the neck and back problems..My reason for saying this is my husband is older...I took him off Viagra four years ago...After I did this he was so confident in his sexual ability that he decided to start working with his kegal muscles...These are controlled by pulling on the muscles in your butt...He would and did do this to built up the ability so that he would not ejaculate...This way it would enable us to be sexual more often....An older man has a longer recovery time for having sex again after he ejaculates...We often have sex and he does not ejaculate and it is just as enjoyable...He is still able to penetrate me and thrust and do all the things that you do but holds back with his muscle control...Again this is back muscle control...I could see how this could happen with you as you are tensed up...If this is on your mind it could very easily bother you more...Kind of a mind game...

These are just my thoughts but I wouldn't be surprised if these two things go together....

Take care,
Caroline

orrrr...are you taking pain medication for your neck and back pain? If so, think about it, pain medications dull/or numb the receptors or feelers. If they do it to the pain ones they more than likely interfer with the pleasure ones as well.

i am 20 and have disc degeneration from t4 down and i have had intercourse for 2 hours plus and still no luck and when i masterbate it takes atleast an hour an a half and im not on pain pills so it must be related to the back pain

My bf & i are mature enough to get involve in premarital sex... but it makes me wonder why i cant seem to aroused him that much, well he gets erection but does not ejaculates during the intercourse especially when were using protection, and i needed to do him orally after or help him masturbate just to make him come, but sometimes this too doesnt help and we retire from it. He says its painful sometimes when i hold it or it gets him tired we doing it, he had much of that during his early years or had done masturbating earlier. But, when we do it without the protection, he reaches orgasm faster before i'm done with it, "pre ejaculation"? so how is this? it has not affected our relationship, just wanted to know if this is normal, and sometimes i get to wonder if im doing well enough to make him happy too...

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