Its not you, its oral sex all together. My boyfriend has never climaxed with that and I haven't heard of anyone who has. I'm not saying no one has, but a majority don't.

i never met a guy that cant climax from oral sex? have you ever climaxed by oral sex? are you stressed out over something? have you tried looking at pron while she does it? i suggest you first research this on the net and see what you come up with. if it is bothersome you might want to see a sex therapist.

My husband does not climax from oral sex either...He prefers to be inside me...He does not want to get in the habit of enjoying something that is much better when two people mate...Many times he holds back ejaculating so that we can have sex again that day...It is all a control thing that a man can do...

A small percentage of men can't climax from oral sex because though they love it, they find it degrading for their wives to have to perform to completion. That's why many men go to prostitutes and get strictly oral. It's the Madonna/prostitute syndrome. Note I said a small percentage of men. That's also why some men don't want to kiss a woman who has just performed oral on them. what do you think about while your wife is trying to satisfy you? Does it bother you that she is doing oral? Or maybe she just needs some practice in doing it well. Most men can climax (if they want to, rather than wait for intercourse) from oral with no problem if done correctly.

This is not the case with my husband...Many times I have told him to give me his load...Once in a while I get it, but when I do, it is a hot sexual game between us...Oh, and I don't swallow...I spit..I think it tastes like crap...Yet saying this,I love nothing more than to go down on him after we have had sex and clean him off with my tongue...Starting between his legs and working up with the delicate strokes of my tongue of a woman in passion...This act of love of swallowing who we were, just plain touches my soul...This, to me, is one of the most erotic acts of sexual closeness that a woman can do to a man...We always lay together after sex...The first time I crawled down between his legs to clean him off, I was startled at what I was doing...I was acting like an animal...But I loved it...I now find that to swallow your lover's and your own sexual juices of love, brings a closeness in life that is more than I ever expected...The first time I did this I looked up at him...There I saw a look of love on his face that I had never seen before...It was truly more than I can ever say....I have been blessed.....