I can sure relate. Have you considered going to a chiropracter? They work wonders on people. Also, massage therapy has helped me tremendously. We get angry and hateful when we feel bad. We do not mean to be, I guess to explain it, one has to be in pain for so long.....it gets so old and its easier to be nasty and take it out on others. I do hope your some finds some relief and he realizes words can cause hurt too! God bless you and your family!