KiBa,
Lyrica (pregabalin) and Neurontin (gabapentin) are often prescribed to patients for "nerve" pain, pain caused by injury or illness to the peripheral nerves. This can be from a direct injury, compression of a nerve root in the spine, or a neuropathy from a systemic illness (like diabetes).
Both these medicines work on a specific reception center within the central nervous system. They work very well for some patients, not so much for others. The only way to tell, is to try one and see if it works. If it does, it can provide a significant amount of relief in some patients.
But, the medicine is not really a "cure" for the nerve injury. They are basically there to help with the symptoms. Nerves are very finicky little things. They do not take an insult very well. But, as long as they are not cut, and the injury was due to compression or stretching, they usually do wake up, it just takes time.
The medicines (Lyrica and Neurontin) are not narcotic pain medicines. In the US, Lyrica is a controlled medicine (Schedule V - very low on the scale), as some patients do get a little buzz or drowsiness from it. Some patients also develop some dependence on it, if taken for a very long time, and as such, may have withdrawal symptoms if stopped abruptly. Again, most patients have no problems with Lyrica, but these things do occur in a small percentage of patients.
You should probably not stop the medicine abruptly, but if you have concerns about it, do speak with your neurologist about it. Again, it helps a lot of people's nerve pain, but if it is not doing anything for you, you might want to ask your neurologist if you can discontinue it. But, you should give it at least 2 or 3 months before giving up on it.
Again, lateral femoral cutaneous nerve problems are not uncommon after hernia surgery. If the sensations in the area are changing, that is usually a good sign that the nerve is waking up. (Just like when you sit on your foot and it goes to sleep. Contrary to what your mother told you, that you were cutting off the circulation, you are actually not doing that, but compressing the nerve(s). Once the pressure on the nerve is relieved, the nerve will start to wake up. It then goes through the predictable stages of being completely numb, to painful (not wanting to touch it), to tingling, and finally fully awake.)
So, again, hopefully, your nerve will continue to wake up.
Wishing you the best. Good luck.