I know not many people write on this but I know a guy who needs help, his wife is extremely abusive but he won't say anything, she has previously stabbed him and is completely controlling. I don't want to get involved, shes a little weirded out but I'm really concerned and I'm wondering if there is anything that could be said in a indirect manner to indicate so.

When I talk to her(lets say he is beside us) she will call him a Sl**T, will say he ruins everything and that she has a need to control him because she wants him to listen. She brags about stabbing him or even inflicting pain and he agrees to it in front of me, he tries to dicsipline their children but she goes back on it, so he gets really frustrated. She always accusing him of cheating but she coerces him to watch the kids, even if he wasn't at fault she will blame him for just about anything.

The list goes on, I want to help but at the same time I don't want to get invovled so I'm looking for some input, if he leaves she has threatened him to rip him for every dollar he worth and I seriously wouldn't blame him if he cheated but I can't believe this anymore. I don't know what to say!