hiya, im writting on behalf of my boyfriend, he has suffered fits for years and they come and go at stressful times, the other night he had a fit and nearly swollowed his tounge.. im so scared for him.. the doctors told him he lucky to be alive. he will not go into hospital as he feels they wont do owt for him, which to be honest the last time he went in he was just left in a bed and no one bothered to check, i never leave the house now as im scared to leave him, they are grand mal seizures, he is in a state when he has then. any one else had these?