Hi.I am Loron,and new to this site.i am a 50 year old woman and a year ago,fell in love with an hiv positive man.before we met, I chose to live a celebate life,and had not been sexualy active for 11 years..He has been hiv positive for 20 years,and he is in good health.his viral load has always been undetectable.but, his cell count is at 160 right now.he is tested every 3 months, 6 months ago, he was over 200.i still have alot to learn about this,and have alot of questions,i believe in natural medicine,and take a product called "host defense", by new chapters.it's made with medical mushroom's and helps support the immune system.and i would like to know if this would be benifical for him.or if it would be compatable to take with his meds.i'm not sure exactly what he takes, as they change often.but, i would think anything that strengthens the immune system would help get his cell count up.And. because his viral load is undetectable,does that mean it is less likely i can be infected? we always use condoms, and even then, he pulls out before ejaculation,and showers imediately after. We do not use a condom with oral sex,but he never ejaculates in my mouth.is this safe?..I want to spend the rest of MY life with this man.!!but. all the information i've read, 20 years is a long time to live with hiv.i refuse to believe that!.i would like to know how many long term survivers are out there. i know he will be one of them!!!thank you.