I have been in and out of a relationship with a bipolar man for the last 18 months.He refuses to treat his disorder and it has destroyed the relationship.Many times, I feel like I'm the one going crazy. His episodes are scary and usually leave me sobbing and feeling helpless. I have begged him to take medication but he refuses.The only med he will take is some sort of effexor which is a very small dosage.He has stated many times that he loves the mania.We are both in recovery and although he is sober from drugs and alcohol, his mania seems like a drug.When we first started dating, he seemed like the most considerate and loveable man I had met in a long time.However, within 3 weeks, I experienced the first of many episodes.It scared me and I had many people telling me to get out while I could.I didn't and now I am left with sadness and have been seeing a psychologists to help me.He again has demanded no contact from me and that is what I am giving him. I'm at a loss. Can you help?