My Wife Wants Me To Meet The Couple She Had A Threesome With

Hi,

My wife and I have been married for just over a year now. About 4 years before we met she had a threesome with a married couple from work. It happened 4 times in one summer and she was sexually involved with both the man and woman during the threesome.

I am fine with the fact that she did it as we all have pasts and I can't control what she did before we met. I don't agree with it but that is just my opinion.

Anyways, she is still good friends with the couple and she wants me to meet them. Nothing of a sexual nature has ever happened since and she isn't into that kind of stuff anymore. The couple also moved to Arizona just after and we live on the other side of the country.

It was just a summer of experimenting for her. I have no problem with what she did and I don't have a problem with them being friends either. I problem I have is that I don't want to meet them under any circumstances. They want to come visit in January and I really don't want to. My wife is really angry with me and doesn't understand that I just don't want to meet them. I wish she wasn't friends with them but I can't tell her who to be friends with. That's her choice as an individual.

I'd like to get the perspective of both women and men so please feel free to comment and let me know if I am wrong or if it's normal that I don't want to meet them. I can look past everything else but I just don't want to meet them.