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king2012

February 15th, 2012

My wife and I want to have another man join us in the bedroom. This has always been a fantasy for both of us. She loves the attention she would receive from more than one man. I would lay next to her while he takes her as she touches me. Then I will take her. We both decided we wanted it to be a male friend of hers. We just don't know which one. We want it to be someone she already knows. She has lots of male friends but my question is how does she go about approaching them to ask them to join us?

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pokealoke

replied February 17th, 2012

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I really dont know, because I have never done it, although I have thought about it. Maybe you should meet them and ask one of them yourself after you make friends with him.

But if your wife is clever, she can find a way to feel one of them out to see if he's interested.

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king2012

replied February 20th, 2012

Since my first post we have made our first contact. He told her he wanted to sleep with her but without me there. She wants this particular man very bad. We are considering doing it. She could always give me the details. We talked and agreed it may break the ice and he may want to have all three of us there the second time. Question is should we wait and keep looking or take this opportunity.

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leonard31415

replied February 28th, 2013

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You REALLY need to think this through.

I'm not saying DON'T do it. Plenty of couples do. And plenty stay together afterwards. But if you aren't sure, particularly with this guy not wanting you there, then this may not be the right person. There's NOTHING to say he's ever going to change his mind, and thus you'll never get to see the action... which is what you originally said you both wanted...

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