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Q: my weird jacket fetish - help!
asked by: hudinibooze on September 24th, 2008
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hi folks.

i have had fetishes all of my life but lately i feel like they're taking over. i'm a 33 yo healthy, social, good looking guy with a sucessful business and i happen to find women in down jackets and certain other specific jackets very sexy. i'd even go as far as to follow a girl to get a good look at her in her coat and even take pics with my phone (rarely!). i love women regardless but when they're wearin these clothes it's icing on the cake for me! i know i'm not alone as there are many sites for this kinda thing and i would never be devient, but i feel guilty of my fetish when i meet someone new and i feel that it's holdin me back. i've had girlfriends who think it's cool and go along with it but i nearly always feel like i'm hiding something. i have so much to offer someone and as i'm an extremly caring good natured person and this feels like a big black mark on my life! like as if the devil got a little piece of me! lol

any advice?

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rooted
replied on September 25th, 2008
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So what's the exact problem? Do you ask girls to wear the jackets during sex?
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hudinibooze
replied on September 25th, 2008
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hi rooted.

yeah, sometimes i do. i'm not very sexually active as i'm single at the mo. and i wouldn't normally get a girl to wear one until i know her well. it's a bonus when they're wearin them as i'm much more turned on! but i'd like to say i don't rely on it. however, i masturbate daily and almost always fantasize about this (sorry about the explicet term). i own quite a few womens jackets. i get models to wear them and take some nice pics too! rooted, are you a lady who wouldn't be bothered by this? or am i in need of help?

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x0x011
replied on September 25th, 2008
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lol it must get vvery very hot (temperature wise) to have sex in a down jacket...
other than that as long as it isn't hurting anyone i don't see a problem with it.
Finding girls attractive in certain jackets isn't bad but actually owning a number of women's jackets yourself is a little odd. I'd be a little weirded out if my bf asked me to wear some jacket that he has had a bunch of other girls wear. That's just me.
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rooted
replied on September 25th, 2008
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Hey hudini,

My husband and I were discussing this issue and we both feel that we can relate. We're also in our early 30's and can understand how certain clothing is a turn on. I don't think that you need help. But do you need the visualization to get aroused? Also, what is the association about? Maybe if you explore some of these questions with a sexologist you can either:

a. Reform your sexual fetish for women in down jackets.
b. Accept your fetish for women in down jackets.

Also, can you post a pic of exactly WHAT the jackets looks like? I think people might be interested to see...
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hudinibooze
replied on September 27th, 2008
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hi again,

luckily, i dont need the fetish to get turned on. i'm just as turned on as the next guy when it comes to women - if not more. as i said, i'd consider it an 'add on'. to be more specific about the fetish it's actually jackets with large collars that i like. ones that can cover your face. i don't necessarily need the collar to be up or anythin, i just like the fact that you can zip it up at any time. i also like sweaters etc with big zip collars. i think my fetish is linked with covering the face because i also have other fetishes linked to that. i.e. latex and stuff - quite a common fetish. what i'm worried about is the behaviour it's makin me do. for example, i like wearing these clothes in the presence of women and visit stores and cafe's where women are working whilst wearin these high collar clothes. i get a kick out of it. and feel guilty after. im not doin anythin wrong but its a sort of obsessive behaviour which aint good.



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rooted
replied on September 29th, 2008
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IT seems a bit vampish, now. And yes, I can see how the behavior can be a bit addictive or impulsive. Do you think that you would benefit from seeing a psychologist?
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hudinibooze
replied on September 29th, 2008
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maybe i would. to be honest, the best thing i could do would have a partner that thinks its cool. that would maybe help with the compulsive behaviour. it did before. i guess it's linked to sexual energy and when i'm not gettin any i'm a bit more obsessive. i just don't want to end up any worse! it's funny how i have this fetish, if you met me you'd never think it. it's the guilty feeling i get when i meet someone new that bothers me. i might meet a beautiful girl who likes me and in my mind i'm sayin 'whats she gonna think when she finds out i have this crazy jacket fetish'. the funny thing is, i've never lost a girl because of this. the last gf i had was very cool with it and made no deal of it at all. it's hard to loose the guilt though. btw, that pic isn't a great representation of what i like, i dunno how it got there as i just pasted a link to a site. how do i post a pic?

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hudinibooze
replied on September 29th, 2008
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here's an amazin jacket!
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rooted
replied on September 29th, 2008
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[img] LINK TO IMAGE [/img] and then you put the link of where the image is HOSTED in between the brackets.
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elcnipa
replied on March 4th, 2009
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I've met several people with jacket fetishes, most of them just a 'light' fetish. It's always either down/bubble jackets or leather jackets.
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CrFolley
replied on April 1st, 2009
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Down jacket fetish
I thought it was just me. I feel normal now. I often get sexually turned on my a woman wearing a puffy coat, especially a brown one. I get even more turned on if she doesn't allow me to touch. But it feels really good when a woman wearing a down jacket gives me a hug.
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sirgregory1st
replied on April 3rd, 2009
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I'd say you are completely normal. even willing to bet there was someone you cared for that had a big down jacked. if you find yourself masturbating to the jackets without a girl in them then,... that's not normal in my humble opinion, but from what I saw you said so far, more power to ya.. I'd say keep a closet full of your favorites just in case the moment arises. oh and good plan on the whole don't bring up on the first date thing.
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sirgregory1st
replied on April 3rd, 2009
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lol just thought I'd add, the reason why not the first date cause its just the whole Too much info thing on a first date/ early relationship. I think most chick don't fill me in on their freakishness till like a month into it.. I firmly believe everyone's got their preferences.. yours is just jackets.
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masterindown
replied on May 6th, 2009
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nice to see more down jacket fetish-ers out there
I too have a big fetish for down coats - particularly womens long coats, I'll wear one with nothing on underneath, do it up tight, put my hand in my pockets and masterbate away.
I also like going out in public just wearing a long down coat and playing with myself subtlely - people give me a strange look but they have no idea I am naked and have an errection under the coat - that turns me on further, really gets my heart pounding. I have shared my fetish with a few girlfriends and some have really embraced with with me. I find down coats and jackets on women very sexy and although dont watch/look at porn per-se do have a collection of women have sex in down jackets .. I also have an adult blog to post some of my stories (masterindown.blogbugs.org). Good to see a few people share the fetish more should ..
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replied on June 2nd, 2009
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i have a big fetish for down jackets and i dont no how to tell my girlfriend she might think im weird
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Wasty1
replied on August 11th, 2009
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I am a girl with a fetish for little leather jackets. I often feel ashamed of it, but in the other hand, I feel pretty stylish & cool when wearing a nice little leather.
I love the feeling of a silk lining and buttery leather.
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W0LF
replied on August 11th, 2009
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Fetishes are actually very common. Kinsey institute estimates about 2 percent of people worldwide are paraphilic, unable to find sexual satisfaction without inclusion of a fetish. Yahoo says that 16% of their users belong to one or more sexual fetish groups. Given how private people are about their sexuality I wouldn't be surprised if those numbers are much much higher. We all have preferences for sexual encounters, some like blondes, or muscles or crossdressing horses. The difference between people with preferences and people with fetishes is that their interest isn't usually understood to be sexual in nature. There's nothing wrong or unhealthy about it, it's just how you're wired to be turned on. If liking coats somehow makes you evil then you're the same kind of evil everyone else is.

High collar jackets is kind of an unusual fetish but it's not invasive, dangerous or gross. I can't think of any reason a girl wouldn't love to indulge your personal turn-on.
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mk1234567
replied on November 1st, 2009
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I also have a fetish for jackets, guess im not alone. I like winter jackets, male or female. I sometimes go to clothes stores just to try on winter jackets because it turns me on. The reason why i like winter jackets is because most of them have soft material on the inside. I get turned on by people wearing winter jackets too, male or female. I have a winters snowboard jacket that has really soft material on the inside, often i take my shirt off and put it on, zip it up and masterbate. I cant explain it but the soft material touching my upper body with no shirt on really turms me on. Google the dc servo jacket and look at the inside of it for a prime example of what i mean, its the one i have.
Does anyone else have a severe winters jacket fetish?
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