I must admit I was a little ho-hum on Valentines day, I was single, lonely, and a little depressed, until my exboyfriend/still friend called me and asked if I wanted to hang out. I obliged, because he was just visiting town and I don't get to see him that much. So, I go, So, we drink a couple of beers, talk, have fun. We both left my friends house at the same time and he basically asked me if I wanted to hang out some more, one-on-one. So, I'm not really tired, so once again I obliged. We went back to his house and watched a movie, in which during the opening credits we ended up fooling around, ultimately having passionate sex for about 3 hours. Now, i wouldn't normally do this, but exs have chemistry, and I know it's wrong, and the alcohol lowered my common sense a little also. So, basically, we had sex on valentines day, and I was a bit grateful because Im single and was getting the Valentines blues.

BUT THEN....After I got home, I discovered he had left his phone in my car. So, I told myself...NO. I'm not going to look through it. So, I didn't...at first. He called it using his moms phone and told me he was coming to pick it up. Then, I looked down at the picture of his wallpaper. It was a picture of a bunch of my old friends....so, reminescing, I went to his photo album....only to find...pictures of a naked chick taken about SIX hours before he had first called me. It was taken on Feb. 14. OMG. First damn pictures that showed when you opened up his photo album.

What did I do? - Stewing inside my head, at first I planned on waiting for him to come get it and walk out to car with the phone open waving the picture of her in his face...calling him a man-wh*re, a**hole, telling him to never speak to me again, but no, I have no control over what he does, he's not my boyfriend anymore so I couldn't be that irate.

BUT...what I did do was call him and told him I'm leaving for the store and that I was leaving his phone in my mailbox. I also set the FAT girls breasts (forgive me) to the wallpaper..So....how upset would you be in this situation?

There is a small chance that they were sex-texting pictures to each other. Like, sending pictures of private parts. Because there was a picture of his genetalia in his photo album too, taken around the same time, and day. I don't actually know if it was actually HIM that took the pics of HER, but if it was, thats even more hurtful. But honestly, I was too shocked to even know what to do....I didn't think he was like that. And if he had sex with her just hours before he had sex with me....gah, I feel the need to shower, AGAIN. I've taken 2 showers today out of pure disgust.

I was EXTREMELY hurt by this and plan on never talking to him again. He gave me a good Valentines Day romp only for me to discover that crap. I admit that I still had feelings for him, even though we broke up almost 3 years ago, he continued to talk to me, basically leading me on. And he's a complete mind-f*ck too. He is very submissive and quiet, and never argues, and he tells you everything you want to hear. He has gone so far to say that his biggest regret is not doing better in our relationship and he thinks he would be better and happier today if he was with me. He has said that I am the best thing that has ever happened to him and that he would marry me if he could. He says basically everything that a lonely single girl wants to hear. I'm not falling for it anymore. Despite his stigma of being the sweetest, kindest guy on the planet, he's a complete player who has mastered the game. Screw him.

I must admit I am proud that I handled this in a dignified manner. I'm glad I didn't confront him face to face because I am pretty sure I would have blown a fuse, telling him what I really thought of him. And I think it was pretty clever to put the picture as his wallpaper, because that tells him without speaking that I know what he's all about, and he'll hopefully catch my drift that we are not on speaking terms anymore.

Thanks in advance for reading....