always thought we were the perfect match until the day i told my partner that i was pregnant with our first child, he had always said he wanted us to have children but once it happened something inside him changed, he didnt want to have the baby and made it very obvious to everyone, after alot of torment from him i decided to keep my baby and gave him the choice to leave if he wanted wih the promise that i wouldnt make him pay maitainance if he didnt want to be a part of our lives. but for some reason he decided to stay, ever since that day he has been distant from me, he never kisses me, hugs me, touches me, he now sleeps on the other side of the bed from me, we never speak and he never shows that he loves me, as you would probably guess we have no sex life either. Over the past 2 years this has got worse, to the point that i am never happy anymore and we fight. Va

lentines day came and i didnt even get a card, things since then have been terrible as i cant figure out what is wrong with me and why he hates me, when we fight he tells me its my fault cause im never happy anymore, i try my best to do everything to make him happy and its never good enough. Yesterday we had a really big fight and he threatens me that if we break up i cannot move home to Sydney ( we live in queensland) as i cant go anywhere when there is a joint custordy case. Yet tells me he cant even look at me anymore. i am so miserable, i dont know what to do and need advice, if we break up then i couldnt stay here as i have no one here for support. please help.