Recently my partner of 14 months left me. I was 34 weeks pregnant at the time, and i ended up in hospital in labour, which the drs managed to stop. Throughout the relationship, he had told me he wouldnt leave, that i would have to tell him theres the door, go. I was devastated when he left- i really care about this guy. He said he didnt love me, that he didnt want me hoping for something that would never happen, and then he walked out the door. Our relationship was what i guess you would class as open- we were allowed to sleep with whoever we wanted, just no trade ins and dont bring anything back. Well, he was flirting with one chick- a friend of ours- quite a bit, and they got a little too close emotionally. I was talking to him tonight, and he said that he didnt leave me for her, but that yes he did have feelings for her and that yes they would have been together by now if it werent for me. He has since been pushing me to get with someone i dont want to be with- i cant just move on from him, especially when i am carrying his child. In my opinion this is just to make it ok for him to be with her, and i dont want that- i dont want him back, but i dont want anyone else to have him either, and i know she has feelings for him, they are as good as dating as it is. How do i get over him? i just want to move on but i find i spend most of my time crying, and i am scared of being a parent on my own. I just want to be happy again, but all i can think of is him and her together, does she sleep on my side of the bed? does she make his coffee the way he likes it-milk first? does he look at her the way he used to look at me? does he call her bub the wayhe did me? how do i move on and stop thinking about him and her?