We've been married for 4 yrs. We have a 2 yr old kid.
Every single night, my husband is pestering me to spread my legs. I really and truly don't feel like having sex every night.
I work all day, as does he, and after working all day, I come home and cook dinner, chase around my 2 yr old until he goes to bed.
When we go to bed around 10 pm or later, I'm tired. Some days, sure by all means, I'm okay to have sex. Other times, I want to rest (I think it but don't say it). I've done "other" things to help him out but sometimes I just want to sleep. Why don't men just want to sleep??
I mean, I enjoy it sometimes, but I'm really tired some days, so how can I persuade him that we should cut back to a few times a week so I can relax sometimes.
So , is this normal to want sex daily? Am I expected to give him what he wants daily?
Do other married couples, with children, have sex daily??
Is it important for mens to get release everyday.Cant they sleep without it?
You should discuss this with him. There is no 'normal'. Every person and couple is different. Every night is however a lot of sex, and i think you will find very few couples that can keep that up. The average is around 2 or 3 times a week for married couples.
Maybe he can just masturbate when you are too tired? Maybe he can help you more at home so you are not so tired and more relaxed? You can also change the time you have sex to early morning when you are tired.
my boyfriend started this a while back and besides being sore all the time I began losing interest in sex., I just had to tell him to back off, lol. He needed to tend to something else for a while besides me-!