I can't imagine what you're going through. However, unless she consents to have amniocentesis and allow a DNA test, you will simply have to wait until the baby is born to find out if this is your husband's child. You should also consider that your husband may have had sex with this woman more often than he has admitted. If that is the case, then it doesn't matter how far along she is.

he admitted having sex with her on dec 22nd.. but the girl had another boyfriend who visited her on january the 3rd week..when i use the pregnancy calculator it states that the date of conception is on jan 24..im confused..but now the girl is not asking for support of anything..

Pregnancy calendars and due dates are only estimates and can be off by as much as two weeks. Unless she had sex with the men two weeks or more apart, there is no way to know which one is the father of her child without a DNA test.

i am sorry that you have to go through this. it is very possible it could be your husbands, but to be 100% sure i would want proof.

you have a right to end the marriage b/c of infidelity if you wanted to.

you can stay with him if you like, but you would have to be very strong for what lies ahead.

i have one child and gotten pregnant on the first try. 1 1/2 weeks after my period i had sex, and my period was due in 2 weeks but didnt come on, and the test was positive.
DNA testing should be sorted out in the begining in this situation. whose name is she planing on putting on the birth certificate. she may not say anything about support, but she has 18 years to change her mind. i was told once you put a person's name on the certificate it's hard to get it removed.

if it is his child what role will he play in this child's life? how will that effect you and if you have any kids? are you strong enough to deal with this if it happens to be your husbands?

Pregnancy calenders are not very accurate im affraid,They are pretty accurate in weeks but not an exact date. A scan will give you a much clearer idea as this will be accurate by days not weeks.But there is no way to tell the exact date ive learned this myself now as ive had 3 early scans and each time my baby has been bigger than it should be going off the dates from the scan before it so a dna test is your only option im affraid sorry your going through this infidelity is hard enough without the stress of this on top.Get a dna test as soon as the baby is born,Im sure if the mother has nothing to hide she wont object and if she did sleep with two men she will probably want to know for herself and the baby's sake good luck