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He wont take no for an answer even though it is to painful to me (i have had 2 kids and severe hemorrhoids) he dosent care.once when I refused he hit me over the head with a glass resulting in 8 stitches and a trip to the E.R.He acts like this is very important to him and gets very angry when I wont do it.I don't understand why he does this to me he is trying this every night ofter not even asking just doing it with out permission I am sick and tired of this and I refuse to put my self through pain and suffering because he likes anal sex what can I do..will it effect me???i suffer lot of pain while doing this....
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replied December 27th, 2010
Well for one he is being ver inconsiderate to your feelings and that is not how someone treats you when they love you. Second I think men have such an obsession with anal sex because
1.they see it in a porn and want to try it for themselves
2.It's something new and exciting
3.Maybe he is getting bored with the same routine of your sex life.
None of it's your fault and by all means you should NOT be forced into it. I think that if you are having heorrhoidial problems you should not participate in anal sex because it will irritate them.
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replied June 26th, 2012
If you want to help this woman, making her violent rapes sound as though that its what they really were, is only going to confuse this victim into thinking that she may be over reacting. People have and still do get convicted for what her husband did to her.
Doctors, spouses, parents, children and people that fit every title known to human beings are encouraged to press charges against anyone for not only entering your body after you tell them not to but also for just touching your body in a sexual manner after you told them not to.
You have physically fought your husband until you where existed several times, or too afraid for you safety to attempt fighting. Then you went back to life with him as though it never happened the way you remember it. It happened, it was wrong and the United States legal system along with national media have published so much information about it being wrong that you felt moved to ask others about it.
You know it was wrong and you're not over reacting.
If your daughter's boyfriend was over and you saw it happening to her, what would you tell her? Your mother may not have told you that forced sex between a husband and a wife is wrong but she was wrong if she told you that it is just fine.
No it's not!
When you walk out on him, no matter what he and others say, THIS WAS ALL HIS FALT. HIS FALT! BECAUSE -HE - IS A RAPEST!
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replied December 27th, 2010
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Kritika, be careful in allowing him to have sex with you in your rear, it can creates more problems to you than you can handle!
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replied December 27th, 2010
Married or not, sex without consent is RAPE. No one should be allowed to use your body without your consent, or in any way you do not wish. Please seek help for yourself outside your marriage. You are a battered spouse.
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replied September 9th, 2011
Could not have said it better myself... you are so right..it rape..charge him.
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replied December 28th, 2010
Omg! No way at all is this acceptable! Let him know how serious you are about your feelings by leaving him for a while. He is doing harm to you and forcing is in no shape or form OK.
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replied December 28th, 2010
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Go and buy a 10" rubber penis and use it on him in his rear!!!!
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replied December 28th, 2010
bo21 wrote:
Go and buy a 10" rubber penis and use it on him in his rear!!!!

Shocked

I TOTALLY AGREE!!!!! LOLZ!!!

Idea giggle
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replied May 7th, 2011
awesome anal sex
Pretend your gonna let him shove his penis up your butthole but grab it lightly and quickyl shove it up your vagina instead.
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replied May 9th, 2011
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Re: My husband forces me to have anal sex .?
Kritika wrote:
He wont take no for an answer even though it is to painful to me (i have had 2 kids and severe hemorrhoids) he dosent care.once when I refused he hit me over the head with a glass resulting in 8 stitches and a trip to the E.R.He acts like this is very important to him and gets very angry when I wont do it.I don't understand why he does this to me he is trying this every night ofter not even asking just doing it with out permission I am sick and tired of this and I refuse to put my self through pain and suffering because he likes anal sex what can I do..will it effect me???i suffer lot of pain while doing this....


I'm so angry to your husband. How can he do this? He needs to be ashamed. My husband wants that,too,but i never wanted to try it,so i always say no,and he stops asking for. He also wants an oral,i don't want it either,so what? I won't try that,i have told him, so if he wants it so bad, he can go and find some other women for it. But,he doesn't want so. He wants me. Well, if he wants me,he'll respect me. Otherwise, i'll terminate every physical contact with him,so that would be worse for him:)
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replied August 21st, 2011
OMG hold on - HE HIT A GLASS JAR OVER YOUR HEAD?????

Why in gods name are you still there?

HE FORCES YOU TO DO ANAL????

Please, for the sake of your own life and your childrens, get the hell out of the relationship? This is not normal in any way shape or form!

It's your choice to sit back and put up with this, but your kids are the ones who will suffer in the long run.

You don't deserve to be treated this way! Sad
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replied September 5th, 2011
Take a page from Laurana Bobbit. I hate rapists. Your husband is the lowest form of life! LEAVE HIM! Take your children and get out!
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replied February 17th, 2012
I so agree with everyone in here you should file a restrinction order against him is for the best of you and your kids are you going to wait until he kills you one day? Get out of that relationship its not worth it you are worth so much don't think that just because you have kids you aren't worht it I am pretty sure someone special is out there who will be willing to make u happy and respect you in every way
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replied March 16th, 2014
Omg king1baby, are you for real? Grow up! You say, "he owns her". She is being raped against her will! You sound like the type who just does NOT respect women!
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replied June 3rd, 2014
You are so right. The fact anyone could think that acceptable makes me feel sick.
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replied May 24th, 2013
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if you are a virgin back there, i'm sure it is painful.
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replied September 11th, 2013
If you don't let him slip it in the backdoor someone else will. As a wife you must pleasure your husband.
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replied October 12th, 2013
this is abuse
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