My husband does not ask for sex?

Please Dr. Andrew help me to understand why does my husband is not normal like other men that want sex, and almost every day? What I noticed he is too sensitive in regards to problems, anger, disscutions, this, i noticed is more important to take in than sex. Plus, he said he might be suffering of low-testosterone or maybe because he is a little heavy?? We do have alot of conflict in this area, because I have low estrogean, my voice is a sexy-deep and of strong caracter and he is pretty soft voice, I feel like he sometimes act like the woman and i act like a man(please we are not gay)!! Please help to know what do you think this health issue it might be??? Thanks