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Q: my guardians are over protective
asked by: AllieLana2893 on August 11th, 2009
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Hey you guys,
Im 16 years old turning 17 on Feb 8 2010.
Ive been dating this guy ever since i was 13. Grew up with him and his sister pretty much. pre teen dating when i was 12..."you know oh i like you you like me sorta thing". So our 3 month anniversary is in October... Anyways im 16 and he is now 20. (3yrs 3months apart Nothing Cops can do)(my aunt is a lawyer and knows stuff like this) I love him with all my heart. My grandparent allow me to date him and see him. They know we want to get married and they know we are wanting a kid.(we raised his brothers baby from newborn til just a few months ago)They agreed to let me marry him at least by next summer. Anyways they are a little strict on me They let me stay the night with him on New years night. Now i want to go stay with him and his family for only one night a month. Id have to sleep in a separte room of course.(he lives with his family bc he is in college and when he gets this job he is getting oct1 he is buying a house we already have looked at a couple.) Anyways they refuse to let me stay the night with him. They say im too young (knowing we have sex all the time) My curfew is 830 on the week nights (homeschooled) im allowed to see him 1 night a week. And only on saturdays and my curfew is 10pm. They are really old fashioned... They say they like him alot and then they act like they dont want us seeing eachother much. its confusing what can i do to make them see im grown up and i deserve to spend the night with him
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AllieLana2893
replied on August 11th, 2009
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i do all the cooking and cleaning in the house.. i also take care of them.. im like their little servent i make A's and B's. I am way mature for my age even my theripist thinks i should be able to stay the night with him... i mean come on really its better than sneaking around to do it
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lizzy_09
replied on August 13th, 2009
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Don't be in a hurry to grow up. You'll have the rest of your lives to think of that later on. Sacrifice future fullness of ecstasy for an immediate excitement is hardly a solution to your dilemma. You may not consider that as reasonable now, but you'll discover they're right later on in not wanting you to rush everything up. This isn't about free-will, it's about the choices you make in your life. All I can say is that they don't want you to regret your decisions just because they've placed you into a position of following what you feel for the time being. I know growing up in a hurry can be frustrating. Believe me, my parents wants me to get serious with men when I finish college. Even if I didn't follow what they told me, I'm manage to make sure if the guy I end up with is responsible.
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