Ok, well my girlfriend is Bullimic and it has been about 1 year since I found out, we have been together 2 years now. Since I have found out I have tried every approach I could think of to get her help. I have started working out regularly and ask her to go with me all the time, also I won't snack when she is around. I have actually called counselors and talked to them. I spent 3 months where I promised her we would only talk about it if she brings it up. Even when I have found her Cup fool of crap I didn't get mad or anything I just tried to talk to her. I also asked her one thing, that she would not lie or hide it from me any more, that she needed to be honest with me. There was a period where she swore to me that she wasn't purging any more and that she was planning on getting help. I looked like a fool when her parents would say she needs to stop throwing up and I would defend her saying she swore to me she isn't anymore. Then I found a cup again. Well Now she has still not gotten help, she is claiming that she hasn't done it for so many weeks and that she won't do it anymore. But I know she did it today cause she spent alot of time in the bathroom and I saw a bit on the seat and there was a toothbrush under the sink and it was wet, oh and I know it is the toothbrush she uses cause I found it before.

Now I am at my breaking point. What do I do now. I have printed up information, free group meeting locations and times, free phone counseling numbers and nothing. She always has an excuse. Now do I break up with her? I know she will get worse at first but I am hoping if she looses me because of her bullimia she will actually try to fight it and not try to push it aside. Also, I know it is not really my place but if I break up with her do I tell her best friend? I think she needs support, but I really can't do it anymore. I think anytime there is any kind of sneaking or lying in a relationship it doesn't work.