ive been dating this girl for almost 3
months now and i know that she has a
feelings on me too like what i feel for
her but the problem everytime i ask her if
she loves me she always say just forget
her, to the reason that she really dont
know when her heart heals beacause her
boyfriend break up with her due to third
party they are supose to get maried nxt
year. in that case i undesrtand but
everytime i answer ok ill try to forget
you and keep on silence she strated
kissing me and ask me if am angry? i ask
her why you want me to forget you? she
reflied to me saying ( maybe if i saw him
again i dont know if i steel love him that
much!!! but i dont wanna be with him again
because of what he did to me!!!! then i
told her clear your mind and am willing to
wait she told me not to wait cause she
dont know when she will be ready to love
again. but!!!!!!!! everytime i kiss her
she always kiss me back not just a kiss i
mean kiss with feelings sometimes it last
for 5 minutes. i dont know if she is
afraid or if she just playing on me.......
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Fairy Godmother
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Move on Posted: 03-21-08 16:42pm
You are only picking at a scab and making
it worse and worse. Its obvious this girl
does not feel the same way about you, yet
you are hanging in there and bound to get
your heart broken. As I see it, she's
already chipping little pieces of it away
at a time. Let her go back to her old
boyfriend if he will have
her............There are way too many
other girls out there who would apprecaite
you and tell you they love you back. She
can't make up her mind.......make it up
for her. You should never play second
fiddle in anoones band....Not when you
could be First.......
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Willa Weintraub
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Posted: 03-24-08 12:01pm
SHe is obviously not ready for another
relationship yet. It seems like she is
trying to be strait up and honest with you
but she wants to try and be with you? I
don't know, if I were you I would back
off.
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Aunt WeeWee
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Posted: 04-01-08 13:23pm
In my opinion, 3 months in a lil too fast
to be saying "I love you"! Jus my
opinion. I was with a guy 8 months before
we started saying "I love you" & our
relationship lasted a lil over 2 1/2yrs.
We been broke up 4 months cause he moved
out of state, but now he is bck & we
are trying to work things out btwn us! I
wouldn't try to rush things, cause usually
a relationship that starts fast, usually
ends fast. If you really care about her,
just let her know how you feel, but don't
try to push it on her, cause you will only
push her away!
Hope I was some help! Good luck with
everything!
<3 Chrissy
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Willa Weintraub
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Posted: 04-01-08 14:26pm
I personally do not think 3 months is too
soon to say I loe you (not saying your
wrong aunt WeeWee), this is my opinion. In
3 months you can spend enough time with
someone to know you love them, I think
that even 3 weeks is possible.
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genrai
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Joined: 21 Mar 2008 Posts: 5
Posted: 04-03-08 06:15am
Aunt WeeWee
wrote:
In my opinion, 3 months in a
lil too fast to be saying "I love you"!
Jus my opinion. I was with a guy 8 months
before we started saying "I love you"
& our relationship lasted a lil over 2
1/2yrs. We been broke up 4 months cause
he moved out of state, but now he is bck
& we are trying to work things out
btwn us! I wouldn't try to rush things,
cause usually a relationship that starts
fast, usually ends fast. If you really
care about her, just let her know how you
feel, but don't try to push it on her,
cause you will only push her away!
Hope I was some help! Good luck with
everything!
<3 Chrissy
actually its helps a lot thanks to all of
you guys, anyways i will not rush things
bitween us and ill wait for her because i
like her a lot and if she decided to
return to her ex i must accept the fact
that she is not for me..... thank you
again guys. ill let you know if something
good or bad happens. thanks aunt wee wee
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Willa Weintraub
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Posted: 04-03-08 08:16am
Thats the way to look at it I always think
that, if it doesn't work out with someone,
it wasn't meant to be and there is still
someone out there waiting
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Aunt WeeWee
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Posted: 04-03-08 09:43am
No Problem!!!! I hope everything works
out! If not, just stay positive about the
situation. "Whats meant to be will always
find away!"
Just to clear things up, you can fall in
love with someone in just one day, but I
wouldn't say it to that person!
I always think
that, if it doesn't work out with someone,
it wasn't meant to be and there is still
someone out there waiting 
