It depends on how they broke up. Was it a flat out..."We are through" or did they just drift apart. Maybe it wasn't put clearly enough to the ex-girlfriend.

Try also getting in contact with someone whom she knows and trusts. Her parents for example. People like this would be able to sit her down and explain to her that although no one wants to hurt anyone, she needs to move on and find someone else as her boyfriend did.

As far as I know you don't have to accept text messages, and you may be able to block them (talk to your phone provider) or change your number....don't notice the drive-by. Some people will always want attention, even if it has to be negative attention. Depending how long ago the breakup was, time will heal broken hearts.

She is 23 I highly doubt that would work because her mom would be pushing her to do bad. She also is very violent and has a criminal background for theft battery, assault, harassment so does her whole family. the break up was 10 years ago

10 year's ago and she still won't leave you alone? If her and her family have a criminal background, then the police already know who they are , try going to them(the police) and tell them what she is doing to you. I'd switch phone number's first chance you get.

Ok, I messaged you on the further details, and I hope your questions are answered.

everyone is over 18

sounds like my 'ex' (whos 32)'s ex-wife who is psycho and wont stop sending strange texts

she doesnt know how to talk to him about the ex due to the fact that he sent replies back and she stills hasnt told him she knows about the texes

huh? i dont get what u mean.. 10 yrs ago means she was only 13 that time.. and mostly relationships at 13 yrs old arent meant to be.. what is she after and what is she trying to do?? and ur last msg:

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she doesnt know how to talk to him about the ex due to the fact that he sent replies back and she stills hasnt told him she knows about the texes

who is the 'she' mentioned and what is it she knows and what she is hiding?

the she is my friend the thing
she is hiding is the fact that she knows about the psycho exes text messages but hasn't said anything about the new messages.
I hope that makes sense I am sorry didn't mean to confuse you.

she needs to just sort of come clean and talk to him about this..otherwise the problem isn't going to go away...she needs to let him know that she knows the ex has been texting and she isn't comfortable with it and he needs to do all he can to get her to back off...maybe ignoring her will work..if shes ignored she should eventually give up

I dumped the boyfriend, he was no good and a liar