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Q: My ex left me and now he wont talk to me because of his family.
asked by: xlil_samx on August 9th, 2009
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My ex left me nearly 2 weeks ago now, because we kept arguing a few days before.
When he left i kept calling him begging him to come back but he just ended up changing his number and wouldnt talk to me about us online, all he would say is i need time to think so i let him have the time, during this time all his family were saying things online like dont get back with her you can do better and dont talk to her. His family also sent me horrible things saying that i dont deserve him. After a few days he came online and said it was over, he didnt want to give it another go, he wanted to get on with his life and then deleted and blocked me. I havent talked to him since but still can see that his family are saying horrible things. my friend has been talking to me and he said that he still loves me but in time we will be living different lives. (i didnt understand this)
I just feel like he was listening to his family. we was together 10 months, engaged and went on holiday abroad 3 times together and was also planning to try for a baby. I just dont know what to do, whether i should email him or just leave it but all i know is that i love him so much and really want to be with him.
please help
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bastionv
replied on August 9th, 2009
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I hate that you have to go through this emotional pain. Everyone goes through it at one point or another. If he has gone to the extreme of changing his # and deleting you online then I would not try to contact him. He will contact you if he wants to be with you. Sometimes, pushing people will only make them fall further from you.
If you leave him alone, he might come around soon. If not, it wasnt meant to be. Try not to stress over this. Time will heal your wounds and in the mean time, do things to occupy your mind and get out there and try to meet new people. I know it hurts but trust me, you will get over him and find someone new. Like I said, give him time. If he comes around, great, if not, move on and try to forget about him. Go do something fun with your friends!
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W0LF
replied on August 9th, 2009
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Hey xlil_samx
It sounds like he thought about things and decided he needed to end the relationship. If his parent's influenced him or his friends it was still his decision. He may change his mind later but it sound very much like he has made it for now and you need to respect that if you care about him at all. Even if you could convince him to take you back, what would have changed from the problems that caused the break-up?
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Carolan76
replied on October 19th, 2009
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Same thing happened to me. I just (literally) tried to call my ex. Her phone says the number has changed or disconnected. I think she blocked my number. She also blocked me from all sites too.
We were together for 3 years. We lived together. She went out with her cousin one day to hang out. I have never seen her again.
For awhile we talked (only via text & e-mail) about trying to work things out. But every time I accepted meeting, she canceled. Her friends also had a huge influence on that. Not only writing horrible things on her Facebook wall like' maybe we will get lucky & he will kill himself', but also writing me.
They invaded the relationship like a plague & gave her no way of saving face if she took me back.
I know where you are at. Because I am there too. The pain is unbearable for me. While I am sad & find it hard to do anything, she goes out & parties like it is just another day.
I am sorry, but i think both of us should have had patience & not contacted the other person. That really is the only way they would have come back. They would have missed us too much. Sometimes it is too little (or too much) too late.
Sorry!
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